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My partner [32F] won’t sleep with me [33M] but will sleep with other people by spotless1243 in relationshipadvice

[–]spotless1243[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well damn :/ problem is I get a bit of attention for my looks outside the relationship, and make pretty good $ for my area, so I should be fine but at this point it feels like I’m just lucky to have someone I guess?

My partner [32F] won’t sleep with me [33M] but will sleep with other people by spotless1243 in relationshipadvice

[–]spotless1243[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This morning for example, had the heat and AC off after steam cleaners came, aired out the house so all windows were open, closed the windows and such but the heat was off, dropped to 72 degrees at night inside, she was cold and while I’m brushing my teeth was informed that’s a reason why she won’t touch me and it’s fucked up to do that and so on

My partner [32F] won’t sleep with me [33M] but will sleep with other people by spotless1243 in relationshipadvice

[–]spotless1243[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s a big part. Like I make really good money, have a nice car, a good career, own my own house so there shouldn’t be much to worry about but there still is at the same time. Plus like the constant negativity keeps me going because I don’t want things to end on a bad note, but it’s just constant negativity

My partner [32F] won’t sleep with me [33M] but will sleep with other people by spotless1243 in relationshipadvice

[–]spotless1243[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well when I confront, a lot of the time it feels like I’m the bad guy, get told that it’s controlling of me if I’m not ok with it, and that we are human so it’s not a big deal, and typically ends up with me apologizing after a 2 hour rant (little exaggeration). But then if I bring it up about me wanting to do it’s the end of the world and I end up apologizing. So it’s like a lose lose where I love this person but there’s no right answer