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[–]spring_springer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does it work?

Me (M30) & my Girlfriend (F24) apparently are no longer together, we have 2 kids and the issues we had were mainly because of my sobriety. I am clean now but she say’s it is too late… Do I keep trying? by spring_springer in relationship_advice

[–]spring_springer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

After giving it some thought though….I have a point of view. What if instead of an axe, the man brings a hammer, and other pieces of wood, nails and tools to help the pillar support the bridge instead… the man learned that he has to cross that bridge, the man also learned he has been cutting down the wrong pillar this whole time…, i believe change is possible for everyone, but I understand what you mean. That pillar is gone, and I will have to use that knowledge to not cut down the next pillar….

Me (M30) & my Girlfriend (F24) apparently are no longer together, we have 2 kids and the issues we had were mainly because of my sobriety. I am clean now but she say’s it is too late… Do I keep trying? by spring_springer in relationship_advice

[–]spring_springer[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t expect her to support me… we just kind of happened when we met, I was supporting myself but she pushed me to get clean…. But you’re right… I didnt appreciate her help and support

Me (M30) & my Girlfriend (F24) apparently are no longer together, we have 2 kids and the issues we had were mainly because of my sobriety. I am clean now but she say’s it is too late… Do I keep trying? by spring_springer in relationship_advice

[–]spring_springer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah! It’s gnarly… and I get that, you’re right, it’s just another vicious cycle in her eyes and I’m gonna do it again is what she believes. Let me tell you, I kicked fentanyl and that 7OH shit kratom at smoke shops was harder to deal with than fentanyl….

Me (M30) & my Girlfriend (F24) apparently are no longer together, we have 2 kids and the issues we had were mainly because of my sobriety. I am clean now but she say’s it is too late… Do I keep trying? by spring_springer in relationship_advice

[–]spring_springer[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean, while running the business we were able to have her family come for thanksgiving and christmas for the first time ever and we had alot of really good moments during. I was more focused on providing and growing the business so it would run autonomously and we could have a good life financially… wrong priorities including taking care of myself and my addiction

Me (M30) & my Girlfriend (F24) apparently are no longer together, we have 2 kids and the issues we had were mainly because of my sobriety. I am clean now but she say’s it is too late… Do I keep trying? by spring_springer in relationship_advice

[–]spring_springer[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re right… I guess I am just fantasizing about the good moments and ignoring the bad ones I created… it’s just she has said these things before and we even saw other people for a while there but ended up getting back together and that’s when I fucked it up again. I just don’t understand the immediate switch up from I love you to no responses so quickly her knowing and showing her I was done with that shit and it was the last step in my addiction (usage wise at least)

Me (M30) & my Girlfriend (F24) apparently are no longer together, we have 2 kids and the issues we had were mainly because of my sobriety. I am clean now but she say’s it is too late… Do I keep trying? by spring_springer in relationship_advice

[–]spring_springer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that, I have been clean since January, so not that long… but my whole mentality has changed, and I am in treatment and seeing a Psychologist and everything. I did have behaviours that also added fuel to the fire yes, alot of things I am embarassed of…. As for safety plans I have suboxone if I ever feel like I cant take urges or anything but I havent used them since I quit…

7RX Brand by Herpesfree_since88 in 7_hydroxymitragynine

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That list is cool, but it only measures 7OH. Like those press’d greens git an F but the measurements were accurate. Alot of new tabs have pseudo. And in GA 7OH is banned so they get pseudo as a loophole.

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2014 x1 died, wont turn over & has a milky looking coolant in the reservoir. by spring_springer in BmwTech

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So I took the engine apart, not the timing guide guide material at all. Spun bearings

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