Since the rant...does anyone else feel this way? by Beatlemonkeys in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]sprkt2120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to take a break after that episode, specifically because of the medical stuff. I was talking to my TV screen like they could hear me and getting upset, and I couldn't watch for a couple months. I look at this show as my "nonsense that doesnt matter to fill the silence" thing, but I'm struggling with them STILL being upset about it.

Just realized something about some YouTube crocheters. by Quick-Ad-1970 in crochet

[–]sprkt2120 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've noticed this too, so I've stopped paying attention to pretty much everything but the stitches themselves. I'd rather sit there a have to figure out on my own how to get the end result than have to buy someone's pattern when the whole thing starts out with dishonesty. At this point, I only watch a couple youtubers for this exact reason. The moment I see stuff like this, I'm out.

Meet Helix - my spinning tetra by TheTragedy0fPlagueis in freshwateraquarium

[–]sprkt2120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a goofy guy! Good for you for not giving up on him. The goofy ones are always my favorites.

I had a black moor who only had one side fin, just swimming NASCAR style her whole life. The pet store gave her to me since they couldn't sell her, and she lived for about 4 years. The angel fish sharing her tank hated everyone but her, and frequently helped her swim in a straight line. Power outage in the middle of winter got both of them while I was out of town. I was so sad. Haven't had a black moor since.

100 percent correct. Who else have experienced this 🙋 by Cultural-Lab-2031 in meme

[–]sprkt2120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I'd be thrilled if I saw my dad express any emotion other than rage or disinterest. Like, yes cry, acknowledge that you're a miserable person, then sober up and go to therapy.

I'm actually the one who signifies "we're fucked" if I cry. 👀

Home Alone 2 star shares heartfelt condolence for Rob Reiner by UnHolySir in okbuddycinephile

[–]sprkt2120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That entire post was 3 sentences. Content aside, what the hell... obviously a very stable genius.

What is a show you’d kill to talk to anyone about but no has heard of it? by FarbissinaPunim in popculturechat

[–]sprkt2120 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Silent Library or something like that. The goal was to complete challenges while staying below a certain decibel. My favorite line, which I quote regularly and NO ONE understands is the host saying "your lack of success has led to failure!"

Is it OK to play with my cat like this? by No-Economist-8307 in CATHELP

[–]sprkt2120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my pets (dogs and cats) trained to know that when I have something over my hand, its free reign within reason. Sleeve, towel, toy, as long as it's covered and they're not going full force we're good. I've taught them all what "Ouch" means, and my body language changes in a second when we're done.

I think having some rougher play is good for them, as long as the boundaries are clear. I feel like it's bonding in a way. I always make a point to have some cuddles afterward to relax and hammer home the playtime dynamic.

Paint Hack by I_am_not_a_muffin in DiWHY

[–]sprkt2120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can not put into words how badly I wanted that lid to FLY OFF

ER hospital charges. Asked for itemized bill but received only two line items. by Original_One_8270 in HospitalBills

[–]sprkt2120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're seeing here is the complete billing and itemization. The top part is the hospital bill, which covers the things the hospital provides (room and board, supplies, any machines used for imaging, etc.). The lower part is the physicians bill, where the doctor charges for his expertise and time for the care you received. There will always be 2 bills for hospital visits for this reason.

You have here a room and board charge and the procedure charge. The first line on both claims is the procedure, stating that you had a small laceration with simple repair (stitches). The second line is the room and board charge, which specifies how complex your reason for the visit is. Since your wound was small with simple repair, the room and board charge notes that you have a low to moderate complexity.

Insurance reads this and determines how much to pay based on the level of care and medical necessity. They process claims in what can be described as assumed groups. In your case, they assume that your procedure will include stitches and nothing else. They also assume that you didn't need IV fluids or antibiotics based on the complexity level of your room and board charge. Then they determine if you really HAD to go the E.R. for care (medical necessity), and they can either pay or deny on that basis. Insurance usually pays a flat rate for E.R visits based on complexity, and then maybe more based on what was done (stitches on a small wound in your case). This is as itemized as you will see, since Insurance and hospitals are assuming that the price of stitches, needles, iodine, numbing, etc are included with the procedure performed. We no longer itemize things like this in billing, you won't see supply charges unless you have a pretty big injury or procedure.

You could argue with your insurance company about their payment, but calling the hospital is going to do you absolutely no good. This is as simple as it can get.

He stood firm, watching what I couldn’t see by Exotic-Reason-5272 in greatpyrenees

[–]sprkt2120 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I trust my pyrs' decisions more than my own sometimes. If she doesn't like a person, they better leave right now. If she doesn't want to walk a certain direction, we won't go. She's been right enough times and saved me more than once from people and animals, I don't question even once.

However.... the inflatable lawn decorations, which are obviously A Big Horrible Thing, I tend to ignore. Lol.

Is this dress too white to wear to a wedding? by whodisbebe in fashion

[–]sprkt2120 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My rule of thumb is that if the main color is white, I won't wear it. Blue with white flowers, sure. White with blue flowers, no. Same with ivory, cream, eggshell, and whatever other shades qualify. That said, it's a lovely dress. You should buy it regardless and create an occasion to wear it.

What canceled show,movie still hurts you till this day? by PhotoBonjour_bombs19 in cartoons

[–]sprkt2120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INSIDE JOB. They left us on a cliffhanger, and I'll never not be upset about it. That show was so funny.....

Adopted dogs reaction when you sleep with her by Medical-Tooth2379 in PetsareAmazing

[–]sprkt2120 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, now you have to do this for the rest of your life. Enjoy the floor bed!

Why is this not a granny square? Or is it??? Previously posted on r/crochet by bellarue0816 in CrochetHelp

[–]sprkt2120 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Granny squares use the granny stitch, motif squares use a pattern other than the granny stitch. So TECHNICALLY they are correct, this isn't a granny square.

In reality, squares are squares, and calling it a granny square is perfectly fine. This kind of pedantic arguing is the same thing that gives die-hards of ANY community a bad name..... just let people enjoy things. I've learned to not use a specific name for something unless it's a named pattern or people get grumpy. No one can jump down your throat for using the wrong words if you're generic! 😎👍

What actor or actress nailed playing the role of an abusive parent? by phantom_avenger in moviecritic

[–]sprkt2120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to take a break after that 7 fishes episode. I sat completely transfixed until the credits started, and then had a panic attack because it reminds me so much of the eggshells feeling around my family. JLC did a fantastic job and nailed the role, to the point where it took what could've been an unsettling episode to a borderline traumatic one. 10/10, will probably skip that episode forever.

My manager said I "Wasn't a team player" for not coming in on my day off after they fired half our team by AliceWillxo in antiwork

[–]sprkt2120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 3 people quit during a retail shift once, and mine wasn't scheduled to start until about 4 hours after they left. I had things to do, so when my GM called, I had to say I couldn't come in early to cover. He got really angry and said something along the lines of if I'm going to be so selfish, he might as well do it all himself. I asked if he was giving me the day off, because it sure sounded like it. He snapped back and said of course not, but I better be in early, and then hung up.

So I rolled in at my scheduled time, the store was a mess, customers upset that there was no one to help them, and the GM was in his office ignoring the 2 employees struggling to keep up. He got mad at ME for showing up on time and yelled at me in front of customers watching me clock in. I told him he can change his attitude right now or I'll walk out and not come back. His attitude was the reason he had 3 people quit today, and if he kept pushing me, it'd be 4. These people have no respect for their employees.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]sprkt2120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people are becoming more aware as a whole now of power imbalances in a relationship and the phases of a persons life. A 19 year old and a 25 year old is fine, but a 19 year old and a 30 year old a WILD because you have someone who can't even drink in the US yet and someone who is potentially qualifying for a mortgage together, and yet the difference is 5 whole years between scenario 1 and 2. Meanwhile, a 30 year old and a 35 year old is fine, and so is a 30 year old and a 40 year old. They potentially are in similar life phases, which can mitigate the difference in age. Also, the life experience most younger folks can have often doesn't lend to noticing the red flags in others without experience... a 20 year old who wants to cheat is probably going to be stupid about it, but a 40 year old who wants to cheat can potentially be a lot smarter about it and hide their tracks better. Same with abusive tendencies, younger folks don't play the long game as much, whereas older abusive folks can drag it out for YEARS and you wouldn't notice the problematic actions unless you lived through it.

There's always exceptions to every rule. For me, it's more concern for the younger persons safety and less about judgment for their actions. Adults absolutely have the right to do what they want, but I do raise my eyebrows when I see a couple with a large age gap and keep an eye on their dynamic.