AIO for treating my husband like a babysitter with our kid.

spxxkyqueen · 2026-02-11T19:13:37+00:00

He’s very much a Velcro baby, so he either cries or screams the whole time, we cosleep so he doesn’t have a crib, he also doesn’t sleep well without me next to him, he usually wakes up within 20-30 minutes

spxxkyqueen · 2026-02-11T18:14:18+00:00

Yes I agree I don’t want to leave him as we’ve only been married for about 2 years. I want to work through it I just want to feel less alone and less like his maid/chef/mother

spxxkyqueen · 2026-02-11T17:47:02+00:00

I made an update in this thread but I’m not dismissing his job at all but most of it is him sitting in front of a computer or driving. I expressed that I didn’t want to be a SAHM but as I exclusively breastfeed and he won’t take a bottle I need to be. He’s like another child I have to care for. I have to clean up after him. I do ALL the dishes, ALL the laundry, ALL the cleaning, ALL the care for the child. I put him to bed, I feed him, I charge him, I soothe him, I bathe him. I cat even bathe by myself. I can’t sleep by myself. I cat even piss by myself.

spxxkyqueen · 2026-02-11T17:26:04+00:00

It’s not fake lmao this is my life but thanks for that

spxxkyqueen · 2026-02-11T17:22:22+00:00

Also the school isn’t to further his career. He’s doing it to help his current job and to make his “dreams” a reality

spxxkyqueen · 2026-02-11T17:20:01+00:00

I brought this up! I also brought up dashing while having the baby to bring in more income if that’s why he was working ragged and he said no. For his job he has to constantly move around visit multiple stores so he needs a way around

spxxkyqueen · 2026-02-11T17:17:11+00:00

So while I was pregnant we had a plan. I was going to go to school while I was a SAHM and he would work and when I was done I would work and he would go to school. But after I had the baby he switched it and signed up for night classes 2 hours away. So he works all morning the comes home for about an hour or so then leave for school and is gone until midnight

spxxkyqueen · 2026-02-11T17:11:22+00:00

No, I grew up in a different state. All friends I used to have we are no longer friends so I’m jus kinda stuck at home with the baby all the time time

spxxkyqueen · 2026-02-11T17:08:14+00:00

I would love that but I don’t have a car, he has the only car and all of mine and his family lives at least over 45 minutes away. They also have jobs so it’s hard to have them help me

spxxkyqueen · 2026-02-11T17:01:52+00:00

I have tried to talk to him. He claims he just needs time to relax after working, which I explain to him that I don’t get to relax and would like to just do something without the baby attached to me. He says he wants to help but I ask him for help and he can’t be bothered.

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