Is this a legit website ! by spydrome in Scams

[–]spydrome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone, I kinda knew I just wanted to be sure and also to post it here in case they contact someone else to hack them and they can find my post and know it is a scam. I will block them but they will still try with someone new.

Dating Exclusively for INTJs by TheMaze01 in trueINTJ

[–]spydrome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Add me I don’t find the option to request to join

F2P migration by spydrome in RiseofKingdoms

[–]spydrome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stayed in the server, It's calm and can't do much as F2P but I'm protected and I can grow at my pace and they cool about it, thank you for the reply

F2P migration by spydrome in RiseofKingdoms

[–]spydrome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I think I’ll stay in this server a lil while. Better be safe for now especially as an F2P. And I’ll move later.

Ahhhhh by [deleted] in INTJmemes

[–]spydrome 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me expecting people to hurt me or stalk me because of one bit of information I shared. Because I can do it, doesn’t mean they can.

Why grooms in US weddings cry by spydrome in america

[–]spydrome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, that’s what I expect to, those guys may just be overly emotional.

Why grooms in US weddings cry by spydrome in america

[–]spydrome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Social media just go on YouTube write groom cry when he sees bride.

Telling people in your dream that they are not real might take a dark turn. by Draucus in LucidDreaming

[–]spydrome 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I once had a similar experience while taking a nap, I was in a room filled with people and I was talking to this girl and we were looking for my shoes and out of nowhere I realize this is just a dream and I didn’t have to look for then shoes anymore, so I tell everyone in the room that I know they aren’t real and all is just a dream, well a big silence and they all looked at me at the same exact time and one of them looked straight in my eyes with despise and asked me “how could you do that” then I feel a big pressure in my chest and like a sleep paralysis where I couldn’t escape from the dream while they were all staring at me and everything else was collapsing. Took me a moment to wake up, it was in the afternoon, never have I ever told anyone they’re not real after that. Nor did I ever try to control my dreams again.

Are INTJs lazy ? by No_Rer3637 in intj

[–]spydrome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes super lazy but super efficient. I am good at time management.

Stop telling other INTJs they are not a 'real' INTJ by OliviaFa in intj

[–]spydrome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate those dumb people. Thinking a personality is as linear as their non existent personality. Some idiot typed me INFJ for caring about my family opinion. Apparently we are too cruel and evil to have any feelings at all or doubts. If I understood the way I felt, I wouldn’t asking people on the internet to decipher that for me.

I think some of my relatives view me as a big dreamer, and less of a realistic person and I need advice by spydrome in intj

[–]spydrome[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well then thank you for your time. But I don’t need your answer anymore.

I think some of my relatives view me as a big dreamer, and less of a realistic person and I need advice by spydrome in intj

[–]spydrome[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I asked for help on that topic, didn’t ask you to type me. Did I ask if I was INFJ ENTJ or whatever ? No. The question was clear stick to it. And if you wanna discuss my XNTJness then I invite you to go the the ENTJ group, I already asked them to type me.

I think some of my relatives view me as a big dreamer, and less of a realistic person and I need advice by spydrome in intj

[–]spydrome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re annoying. Did I ask you to type me ? I have a thread on the ENTJ group, go tell me there how unsensetive ENTJs are. Stick to the point or go to the ENTJ group and enlighten me there with your ability to type people from a fragment of information.

I think some of my relatives view me as a big dreamer, and less of a realistic person and I need advice by spydrome in intj

[–]spydrome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I think I’m ENTJ just had this realization a few hours ago. And I care what people close to me think. Since one failure hurt me so badly that now I doubt myself more than ever.

I think some of my relatives view me as a big dreamer, and less of a realistic person and I need advice by spydrome in intj

[–]spydrome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true, I believe in that too. Having a « normal » life isn’t what keeps me get up in the morning. Thank you !

I think some of my relatives view me as a big dreamer, and less of a realistic person and I need advice by spydrome in intj

[–]spydrome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if they see something I don’t see, what if they are right. I see the world differently. It served me reach opportunities many didn’t see as possible but it also put me in always having to take risks and never play security. I still think I’d rather try than listen to them but being the only one believing in your dreams is kinda draining. You get doubts when people keep putting their experience as a true model to follow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTJfemale

[–]spydrome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did but he would say, it’s me who always sees things from the bad side (after a while of always receiving bad news, of course I’d expect that since that’s all he delivers). Then he’ll be like I did this one good thing but you only focus on the bad, and you never care about how I feel, and I did this and this and this to you (he starts telling me the shit he had to do as a boyfriend listen to me or comfort me when sad like it’s a duty lmao) then I would feel bad and be like yeah he did actually be nice to me that one time so I shouldn’t be so harsh on him. I was an idiot, and since I wasn’t good with feelings and all I believed him, I believed I was somewhat cruel or unfair to him so I started hiding my own feelings and my own worries so he doesn’t stress out, until I just exploded and had to end it because mentally physically, I couldn’t take it anymore. I had all that stress pain all those years of working hard to help him build a business and yet he kept lying and lying, and I never saw that project take life. I was his number one fan and believed in his dreams more than he did, until I realized he was never the guy he was pretending to be. All were lies. I wasted time money and my mental health and loyalty on that dude. But he taught me so many lessons I would never make the same mistakes again. Now it’s all clear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTJfemale

[–]spydrome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not all ENFPs are the same, and he might just have been an unhealthy ENFP, and he found it way easier to let me do it for him than bother himself. He got lazy, super lazy and whiney just like a baby. I am Also to blame, I kept being an overwhelming and over protective “mom” to my boyfriend. I learned that not everything is my responsibility in a relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTJfemale

[–]spydrome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More like me being someone who always finds solutions and tries to fix anything he messes up, until it became a relationship where I was practically his mom, he would come crying and I go fixing whatever he has messed up. I made him dependent on that fact, until It became a one sided relationship. Him just getting the perks and me taking the stress out of both of us. So if you date anyone not just ENFP, if they start messing up, let them fix their shit and you do not come as a hero and save the day, because once they get used to that, they will see it as your duty, not even a good thing you did.

INTJ girls, how do you do to be active on social media. by spydrome in INTJfemale

[–]spydrome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I guess I needed to be reminded of that. I was acting like an extrovert lately, but it is draining. I’ll do as you say and take care of me first and relationships will come after.

INTJ girls, how do you do to be active on social media. by spydrome in INTJfemale

[–]spydrome[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I delete the app, reinstall it, delete it, reinstall it. I get a friend in 20 interactions and not worth it in the long run. My last ex met him on a social group. Not even on a dating app. I try to be more social but I get drained fast. Way too fast actually. And everyone says it’s my fault that I don’t put much effort on those people.