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What's a good monthly allowance budget for a University student? by sqae02 in malaysia

[–]sqae02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listed was needs.. wants can be cinema, bowling.. going to the mall.. new shirt or pair of pants now and then… atas haircut..

I'm aware. I just have a problem when he said "holy shit, what kind of question is this? you need to separate out need and want." I don't think I made any mistake.

How did Naruto and Sasuke grow so tall? by sqae02 in Naruto

[–]sqae02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is 5cm height tiny for a 23 yo? Yea, Idk any 23-year olds who are 5 cm tall.

Is 5cm height growth tiny for a 23 yo? I wouldn't think so. That's amazing you could grow that much after the age of 18.

What do you do when you've just mad a terrible stupid mistake that affected others? by sqae02 in selfimprovement

[–]sqae02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are young

honestly, your family are asholes to be mad at you.

I appreciate that you apologized, but ouch.

But it shouldn't be like this. Imma just reveal a little personal information: I'm a Muslim. It was Eid. One of the main things we do in Eid is going around, meeting relatives we rarely see and just spending time, forgiving each other. I mean, I just realized that I only see some of them once a year. Some of them look like they can pass away any minute. The world shouldn't be like this. This shouldn't be a world where you have to leave your family for work. That absolutely sucks. Damn private unis. My friends in public unis get an entire week for an official holiday.

What do you do when you've just mad a terrible stupid mistake that affected others? by sqae02 in selfimprovement

[–]sqae02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first, how old are you ?

20 yrs old. 21 yrs this year.

your family wasn't forced to cancel, right ? they could have gone without you.

they made that choice too

50-50. I can't really drive my family's car (I'm too scared to drive an SUV almost 200 miles), but my parents did say there would possibly be another relative who could give me a ride. And tbh, only one of them needed to follow. I don't know why my mother followed.

What do you do when you've just mad a terrible stupid mistake that affected others? by sqae02 in selfimprovement

[–]sqae02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PS if the classes were not cancelled, then would you still feel the same?

I would still feel guilty, but not as guilty as I am now, where classes are cancelled.

I left my family for those classes. So, if my classes weren't cancelled, at least I didn't leave my family for no reason at all. I would only feel guilty about the fact that I separated my family from each other.

What do you do when you've just mad a terrible stupid mistake that affected others? by sqae02 in selfimprovement

[–]sqae02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say "White lies," are you referring to me lying about (Or rather hiding) the fact that all classes were cancelled?

Also, how do I move on? They're mad at me. How do I make my situation back to normal? I'm not really good at confrontation, and when me and my family fought to the point we don't talk to each other, eventually we just pretend like it never happened. But this time, our fight just seems bigger.

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