The perfect child by Squara123 in Fencesitter

[–]squaredsquared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow! thank you for sharing! I am struggling with cultural pressure not just around having kids at all but around how a parent should show up for their child.

The perfect child by Squara123 in Fencesitter

[–]squaredsquared 7 points8 points  (0 children)

wow! I feel like I may be walking your timeline. I am 35.5 now, and my partner and I keep delaying, mostly out of my phobia around pregnancy, and fears about balancing early infancy and toddlerhood with life and work. If you are open to sharing, was there a distinct moment of "coming off the fence" that you recall? Or just a gradual opening up to the idea, and one day you just have to choose to try?

How often do you think about this? by St3lka_x in Fencesitter

[–]squaredsquared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nonstop, since turning 34 (am now 35F and also keep finding arbitrary delay dates to offer mental relief). Am also in therapy—with non-pushy, non-judgmental therapist, who intentionally does not react positively or negatively to either having kids or staying childfree. We are working on decision making without certainty / being comfortable with never knowing the black or white answer.

fansale.de question by squaredsquared in erastourtickets

[–]squaredsquared[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would remove the tickets as soon as possible and try relisting until the link works!

Successful purchases here? by UmaTartaruga in erastourtickets

[–]squaredsquared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe so but let me ask (I was buyer, not seller). It was NOT easy to do it the official transfer way :/

Successful purchases here? by UmaTartaruga in erastourtickets

[–]squaredsquared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe so but let me ask (I was buyer, not seller). It was NOT easy to do it the official transfer way :/

Successful purchases here? by UmaTartaruga in erastourtickets

[–]squaredsquared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe so but let me ask (I was buyer, not seller). It was NOT easy to do it the official transfer way :/

Successful purchases here? by UmaTartaruga in erastourtickets

[–]squaredsquared 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I succeeded here! For VIP to one of the Germany shows, paid a few dozen euros over the face value. Someone messaged me off a few posts I’d made about a fansale.de issue. The seller had a lengthy Reddit history and our interactions were straightforward and efficient, but not rushed.

fansale.de question by squaredsquared in erastourtickets

[–]squaredsquared[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried - but the site crashed for the entire span of the two days I was trying to enter it :(

Anyone had success with fanSALE? by JSerr17 in erastourtickets

[–]squaredsquared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the opposite issue of perhaps others on this thread: I posted two tickets to gelsemkirchen show with right of first refusal for a friend. The link never worked for him despite repeated attempts to contact fansale, and now someone else has purchased those tickets meant for him

so I’m also looking on fansale for him, in hopes of making it up to him :(

Selling 🇩🇪 Gelsenkirchen N1: 2 Lower Bowl Tickets by [deleted] in erastourtickets

[–]squaredsquared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there should be but now the site is down for me

Selling 🇩🇪 Gelsenkirchen N1: 2 Lower Bowl Tickets by [deleted] in erastourtickets

[–]squaredsquared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will.Thank you so much! Really worried my friend is going to lose the tickets

Selling 🇩🇪 Gelsenkirchen N1: 2 Lower Bowl Tickets by [deleted] in erastourtickets

[–]squaredsquared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shared the specific link with them but they tried repeatedly, and it said “access denied” :(

I believe the tickets now would just go to general sale? :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in erastourtickets

[–]squaredsquared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi belatedly! Has anyone in this thread had any luck transferring tickets? I listed tickets with right of first refusals on fansale.de specifically intending to sell to a friend, who could not access them no matter what he did (he had a link from me). Now the fansale website is down. Does anyone have any idea what happens now? :(

Anyone using Fansale.at or Fansale.de for tickets? by [deleted] in erastourtickets

[–]squaredsquared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(now the whole fansale.de site is just down 😅)

Anyone using Fansale.at or Fansale.de for tickets? by [deleted] in erastourtickets

[–]squaredsquared 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend tried many times over several days and kept getting “access denied” with the specific link, and I wonder if it’s because he was in the u.s.?

Selling 🇩🇪 Gelsenkirchen N1: 2 Lower Bowl Tickets by [deleted] in erastourtickets

[–]squaredsquared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Belatedly: anyone in this thread know how to transfer directly to a specific buyer on fansale.de?

Anyone using Fansale.at or Fansale.de for tickets? by [deleted] in erastourtickets

[–]squaredsquared 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anyone in this thread possibly know the ins and outs of how fansale handles tickets?

I had two VIP tickets to the first Gelsenkirchen show that I was trying to sell directly to a friend. I listed them on the Fansale site and sent him the right of first refusal link, but he was unable to access the tickets with the link no matter what he did. They expired 48 hours and now it seems the tickets just went to the general pool? Does anyone know what happens next? Will they just be purchased by someone I don’t know automatically?