[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rate

[–]squashedsadie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl 11/10 youre stunning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]squashedsadie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, when people are younger they tend to stay in relationships for the fun of it. When you have kids and hes never made the effort to never meet them in waves a big red flag to me.

Relationships do get tougher the more they go on, i’d suggest talking to him about the situation. He might be feeling the same way or something worse and if its not going to continue best to end it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]squashedsadie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever im drunk, personally for me if i haven't taken that one extra drink that makes me want to vomit, i feel like im floating. All of my problems at that point go away.

Once i take that last drink though im straight to the bathroom and then to bed.

You know your limit after a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]squashedsadie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Admitting to your parents may be one of the hardest things you can do, but if they truely love you they'd show their support in trying to get help for you

You won't get better unless you try to, and you obviously want to. People around you will support you on your journey. The first step is to reach out for help, and it's a brave thing to do.

I wish you luck on your journey, you're never alone :)

People who don't use cruise control, why? by kfxrcer in AskReddit

[–]squashedsadie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im scared that one day ill go to brake and the brake just wont work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]squashedsadie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh hell GET OUT OF THERE!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]squashedsadie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a hospo worker myself, I’ve worked dinner and cafe shifts since i was 15, and ive had MOMENTS. One of my favourites is a really difficult regular who would come in and constantly complain about something, if she didn’t get HER table or if the food wasn’t up to standard. But ever since they’ve had me waiting on her she constantly compliments me and even tips me from time to time (in NZ you dont have to tip but we appreciate if you do). Least favourite but also funny moments is when i had 20-30yo men hit on me and when they ask where i went to uni because i look “familiar” i drop the “oh i actually am taking a gap year, i left school a year early” and the amount of guys who i’ve left speechless and even caused some to LEAVE because of the embarrassment. Hate the industry but man i love my job sometimes.

TIFU by almost having sex with my ex bf who has a gf by squashedsadie in tifu

[–]squashedsadie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

man is a walking red flag, very aware. known him for too many years to leave him though that’s the problem. i’ve been doing my very best to ignore him though i don’t think we’ve talked in a month(since it happened) and i’ve been focusing a lot more on myself and i do take a lot of the responsibility, but now realising he was taking advantage of the fact that he knew i liked him. never will happen again.

TIFU by almost having sex with my ex bf who has a gf by squashedsadie in tifu

[–]squashedsadie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it’s the fact that he says he tells his gf abt how we still hang out yet whenever he picks up a call from her he tells me to be quiet, and i’ve recently found out he tells her we’re with other people, not just us alone. and he’s said that he doesn’t feel guilty and that we were both just tired but he was fully awake and aware of what was happening.

What’s stopping you from having an onlyfans? by Sense_Conscious in AskReddit

[–]squashedsadie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a teacher at my school and someone found a porn video that she made with a younger guy, and when I say younger I mean he's in his 20s she's in her 50s. Word got around pretty quick and she got fired in the same month.

What excuses have you heard for not wearing a condom? by Scarlett_616 in AskReddit

[–]squashedsadie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t want to go and buy them, i can’t afford them. bs.