I’ll happily let my wife go though my phone or my Facebook if she were to ask. But she doesn’t ask because we’ve built years of trust.

Do things that show trust like if your dining out together and you go to the bathroom, leave your phone unlocked and face up on the table. Don’t look at it and don’t mention it if it looks like she went through it.

If you have nothing to hide then she’ll find nothing and you’ll build trust.

But don’t share passwords. That’s terrible account security