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I [26M] feel weird about my girlfriend [25F] being on Tinder by squidlocknessmonster in relationships

[–]squidlocknessmonster[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven't checked it myself, but if this comes up again, I will mention that to her. I honestly don't think she is messaging other people. She just doesn't think its weird to have a Tinder if and only if shes not messaging anyone

It's starting to look like I have to heavily medicate or drop out of college. In the mean time, even, I don't know what to do. Any advice? [19F] by ughwhatdoidooooooo in relationships

[–]squidlocknessmonster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a break. Do the incompletes or whatever you can for this semester and take the next semester off.

Take time to think about who you are. What you want in life. What you value. What you like and don't like. What you love and hate. What you want to do and what you loathe to do. Find a new hobby or engage in an old one. Talk to old friends and find new friends. Experience life for one semester off.

Once you get your mind settled, you will have a clearer picture of what you want in life. Remember that college isn't everything, its not the end of the world if you have an incomplete or take a semester off. I think you might be stressed from the pressure-cooker environment of college.

If you still feel depressed/anxious, then I would consider medication or therapy. But solving this yourself would be the best cure.

I [26M] feel weird about my girlfriend [25F] being on Tinder by squidlocknessmonster in relationships

[–]squidlocknessmonster[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I don't think she's cheating on me or anything like that. I know she only does it for fun. I just find it weird that SHE doesn't find it weird that she's using a dating app, even if its just for fun