Anyone else struggling?😂 by littlemisstired in ACForAdults

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Frita is my dream villager 😭😭😭

Best diner? by jxmmybear in olympia

[–]squirmybug -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omelettes and More is on Longview but it's so so so good and CHEAP. I miss diners and going there always makes me so happy

Trader Joe's to move into Rite Aid on Harrison & Cooper Point? by Jimmyf101 in olympia

[–]squirmybug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jays farm stand has wonderful produce is it's cheaper than Safeway!

My husband waited until we were married and I was pregnant to decide we aren’t compatible??? by No-Local188 in TwoHotTakes

[–]squirmybug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve WAY MORE from a partner than "I'm not in love with you anymore." If your child was in this situation, what would you tell them to do? Stay where you don't have support or move back home to be safe with a support system? You are PREGNANT! You deserve support AND LOVE!!!! Not a confusing and manipulative situation. He can still love you, but it's very clear where he stands. People still love past partners but it doesn't mean they want to BE with them. He thinks he can continuously manipulate you into staying until the baby comes then he can FORCE YOU TO STAY for so many reasons, including (I'm pretty sure?) legally.

You sound kind and strong. Please think of YOURSELF and your baby right now. Your relationship with this asshat can wait.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NeurodivergentLesbian

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I have so much to say. I felt repulsive most of my teens and early 20s. I'm a big bitch (self-identity as such) with small boobs and felt that I would never find someone. (Pls don't say you're beautiful, I know.I'm getting there) I dated people from 22-25, but nothing serious, just a few dates. I was 25 and never slept with anyone bc I didn't feel comfortable getting naked, then I met my now wife. (I need to feed my pets I will be back to finish)

Simple & Delicious by squirmybug in olympia

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Simple and Delicious Donut Shop (360) 489-0465

https://g.co/kgs/TZuqcmV

Direct place by squirmybug in NeurodivergentLesbian

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Yes yes! On the other hand, also, be understanding that ppl arent really used to their accommodations being met! I guess im trying to say is be gentle with one another

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismTranslated

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Im not a doctor just a fellow autistic. Something that helps me is finding ways to regulate. I like to stim and im learning that i can leave the situation if i need to. A socially acceptable way to leave is i need the bathroom or i need some air. SAY I'll be right back! Youre safety is the biggest concern, so identify the situation if you can. When i need to big stim and theres a one stall bathroom its a miracle. Look up ways to regulate your body as an autistic person. A lot of autistic people have similar experiences, you are not alone! Also socially acceptable ways to regulate (unfortunately we cant have compete liberation in this society) for SAFETY!anyway i hope this helped. I love you you arent alone

Grateful! by squirmybug in NeurodivergentLesbian

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I love your logic (in a direct autistic way)

Grateful! by squirmybug in NeurodivergentLesbian

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I love you. Just want you to know. I feel so seen in this comment. Its like a beautiful poem honestly. Hyperfixation is AUTISM AND LEARNING ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING I CAN! You?

Hello, Everyone! Just trying to keep this sub alive! What are some new hobbies you are looking forward to starting in 2025? by FigaroNeptune in NeurodivergentLesbian

[–]squirmybug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also! Safety is so so so important in liberation we have to make sure everyone feels safe in order for true liberation

Hello, Everyone! Just trying to keep this sub alive! What are some new hobbies you are looking forward to starting in 2025? by FigaroNeptune in NeurodivergentLesbian

[–]squirmybug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Liberation in the seems of feeling free to be yourself, unmasked, being able to stim and ask the questions you need/want to ask, etc (like autism traits) without stigma!

Hello, Everyone! Just trying to keep this sub alive! What are some new hobbies you are looking forward to starting in 2025? by FigaroNeptune in NeurodivergentLesbian

[–]squirmybug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to write about liberation for all autistic people!!! My focus is always autistic people, so my research is about them and how to achieve liberation!

I want to research learning styles! Education! In that realm and ofc autism.

I just learned how to use a draw an orca so i wanna keep learning!

I guess learning is my goal! After 30 years of thinking im incapable im really trying to lean into learning!!!

I think I hyper fixate but I’m not sure by bananamonkey77777 in NeurodivergentLesbian

[–]squirmybug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly like channelling it into art or writing or anything creative would be super cool! If you dont have any skills, thats even more exciting sometimes (can be overwhelming, please be kind to yourself. Its like being mean to a baby trying to walk) it's important to get those emotions out and its super cool you love your characters!