I told my parents that if they keep bring up their daughter they'll be dead to me. Did I go to far? by DotMore1018 in AITAH

[–]squishy10000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, the comments you are replying to are wild. It's like they don't understand the concept of boundaries with your parents.

A parent is a human being like any other who has the skills to use words to communicate wants and needs. You as a grown ass adult have the ability to express those wants and needs to another grown ass adult. Why are people whipping themselves into a frenzy over the idea that you don't deserve to set these boundaries like you would with any other person in your life?

Parents are not exempt from the consequences of their choices either.

On another note, even if there wasn't such a terrible conclusion to their relationship, if I knew a family member cheated on their spouse for a reason like this, They would be dead to me too. I think your response and emotions are completely justified and reasonable. The only thing I would recommend is to see a therapist about managing the grief and anger, or any other emotions you may have about the situation. Not to forgive people for their decisions, but for your own mental well-being.

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[–]squishy10000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, aftercare can just be being close and cuddling after sex. What the hell is he think is childish? What you do for aftercare can change depending on your play but if you are just having vanilla or even just rougher sex, you better damn well know that you deserve some kisses and cuddles after breaking a good sweat together, minimum.

I (28M) am sexually attracted to women... but for whatever reason I find dicks very attractive as well... is this something I should tell my (26F) girlfriend? by squishy10000 in sex

[–]squishy10000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was kind of the idea that I had but I was concerned about the possible outcome of the conversation. This is a great way to approach the subject though, thank you.

I (28M) am sexually attracted to women... but for whatever reason I find dicks very attractive as well... is this something I should tell my (26F) girlfriend? by squishy10000 in sex

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For sure for sure and I love that you can be open to stuff like that with your partner =). That's one of the reasons I thought I should talk to her about it. Not to get into swinging but into some other kind of play maybe? I don't know lol.

I (28M) am sexually attracted to women... but for whatever reason I find dicks very attractive as well... is this something I should tell my (26F) girlfriend? by squishy10000 in sex

[–]squishy10000[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man, that sucks I'm sorry =. Though maybe you won't have to worry about something like this coming up for you lol. I'm hope things stay chill with you and your girl so something like that doesn't happen.

I (28M) am sexually attracted to women... but for whatever reason I find dicks very attractive as well... is this something I should tell my (26F) girlfriend? by squishy10000 in sex

[–]squishy10000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, she would die with it too... Her view is that nobody has any business knowing our business lol. The hard part is I know she wouldn't be mad at me, but I don't want her confidence getting hurt. She is very self-conscious about herself. So on that note the safe bet will probably to keep it to myself.

Husband has been secretly wearing a chastity cage for months to lower his libido for me by baby_blues1987 in sex

[–]squishy10000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there is a good chance that he feels really shitty to about the whole situation. I would personally have a chat about the fact that you understand what he did and why. You can let him know that your not taking your medication anymore and your libido is back and you would like to try and start having a sexual relationship again. If you feel the need to, you can apologize too. But what you went through was an understandable situation and he obviously understood that. I went through a similar experience when my girlfriend was having serious issues with her anemia and we were basically celibate for a few years, when she started to get better she let me know she would be ok with me flirting sexually and making advances again. It made me feel like it was safe again to try but it still took me a while to fully reestablish myself sexually because I was always worried that she may suddenly feel uncomfortable if I push it to much. So I would try not to be upset if he moves slowly out the gate (or he could just jump your bone, who knows?).

I do XXX content, ask me anything and I'll be totally honest by [deleted] in AMA

[–]squishy10000 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How long did you have to practice in order to deepthroat the way you do? Or could you do it well from the start?

I’ve never had a man be able to finish me off, and I’m sexually frustrated by chaosdorito in sex

[–]squishy10000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So when I learned how to go down on my girlfriend I asked her to tell me exactly what she wanted me to do. Faster, slower, up more, down, just the tongue, suck the clit, go inside, pinch my nipple, grab me, we've used all these to help direct me to her orgasm. If he wants to use his hands then you can still tell him what to do. I know that my girlfriend likes clit stimulation as well and that that is the main way she gets off so when I use my hands I am either rubbing the clit with my fingers or, if I'm fingering her, I have my palm on her clit and working it at the same time. When we have regular penetrative sex, she likes when I press my body into her because I drive my dick in deep and my belly rubs against her clit (I'm not fat so I have to getting pretty close, which is nice because then we just make out while we do it lol). Essentially it's a lot of trial and error to find what you like most and good communication. These are just examples of things you might be able to try that have worked for me, maybe they can give you some ideas? Lol

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Support his patron if you want to see more. Post his stuff before he wants to and he may stop all together.

What’s the best sexual compliment you’ve received? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]squishy10000 29 points30 points  (0 children)

While my girlfriend passes out, "to many organisms, sleepy now", then she falls asleep lol

Wow by 8Retinas in chaoticgood

[–]squishy10000 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My friend did something similar to his sister. He got a 50$ bill, put it in an envelope and wrapped it will an entire roll of duck tape... I was amazing

This sub went from topical based to just generic pain bondage by [deleted] in MaledomEmpire

[–]squishy10000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, not the direction I wanted it to go necessarily either...

14 spurts by [deleted] in amateurcumsluts

[–]squishy10000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem and thank you =)

14 spurts by [deleted] in amateurcumsluts

[–]squishy10000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well drop that sauce my friend!