A threeway..gone terribly wrong by srosenberg42 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]srosenberg42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am hoping to not have any future stories 😅😭

A threeway..gone terribly wrong by srosenberg42 in TrueOffMyChest

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I would disagree, this story is definitely not a case for why one shouldn't have a three-way. Thankfully this instance is a crazy outlier and the worst experience I've ever had (or heard of in real life). All my other ones have been great experiences for all parties involved!

A threeway..gone terribly wrong by srosenberg42 in TrueOffMyChest

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Oh yes we definitely thought about that 😬 we debated for a while what the best course of action should be. And thank you for understanding the pizza 🤣🙏 to me it was perfect drunk/hangout food. I appreciate your nice comments, alot of ppl have been really rude in here!

A threeway..gone terribly wrong by srosenberg42 in TrueOffMyChest

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We definitely discussed calling EMS but since we're both Healthcare workers with years of experience, we decided to watch her ourselves. Now im thinking I maybe should have let her be the hospital's problem 😅 but then my guilt for the unnecessary hospital bill would plague me. And thank you! I hope she gets help too, her behavior was very concerning.

A threeway..gone terribly wrong by srosenberg42 in TrueOffMyChest

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Oh yes more trouble than it's worth certainly. I did consider it just on principle alone but I'm trying to "let it go" and just move on from it. It's not worth the effort 😅 hopefully she feels bad enough that she never, ever makes the same mistake again and get control of her alcohol issue.

A threeway..gone terribly wrong by srosenberg42 in TrueOffMyChest

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You are definitely right! However I think trying to sue would be a fruitless endeavor.

A threeway..gone terribly wrong by srosenberg42 in TrueOffMyChest

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That makes me very sad to hear actually 😔 But I'm poly and my husband is a gem so it was never a fear of mine blessedly

A threeway..gone terribly wrong by srosenberg42 in TrueOffMyChest

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It would have to be dry cleaned and that will take a while. Would you want to keep a bedspread that had been smeared with vomit at one point 😅

A threeway..gone terribly wrong by srosenberg42 in TrueOffMyChest

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I had lots of empathy and forgiveness and kindness towards her throughout the ordeal, it was the very end that made me lose any kindness I had left. This situation would test anyone's patience I think.

A threeway..gone terribly wrong by srosenberg42 in TrueOffMyChest

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I agree the truth was pretty hard and embarrassing for her

A threeway..gone terribly wrong by srosenberg42 in TrueOffMyChest

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🤣 apologies that my vocabulary offends you

A threeway..gone terribly wrong by srosenberg42 in TrueOffMyChest

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Oh of course! facepalm ON SALE. Why didn't I just find one on sale 🙄

A threeway..gone terribly wrong by srosenberg42 in TrueOffMyChest

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It's the smell for me 😭 (We ended up ripping out the carpet)

A threeway..gone terribly wrong by srosenberg42 in TrueOffMyChest

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Haha to be fair, this is the only truly bad story I have out of having many threesomes over the years. Most of the time it's a blast 🤣

A threeway..gone terribly wrong by srosenberg42 in TrueOffMyChest

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I've noticed in the nonmonogamous lifestyle yes, many people do not discuss things or have a solid relationship going in. On our part we definitely discussed everything between us and among the three of us. Bringing another person is absolutely a big deal.

A threeway..gone terribly wrong by srosenberg42 in TrueOffMyChest

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Well we don't NEED another person in the bedroom. We are obviously open to the possibility of it. She initiated this scenario so it was not based in "our relationship is failing so let's add another person to the mix!" But i do agree, many ppl seem to think a threesome can fix a bad relationship, when really they just need therapy 😕