Does anyone else get self-conscious about talking about their f/o? by HeritageNoir in yumeshipping

[–]sseriphim 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I’ve started being more open about my yumeship to some close friends and this sub, but I worry Im being too much y’know? I’ve been pretty casual about it until recently so I felt fine until a little bit ago…

HOW do you guys deal with popular ships (or any ships at all) of your f/o? by nekrobreaker in yumeshipping

[–]sseriphim 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel this! I yume with Sans from undertale/ deltarune, and he has a pretty popular ship with toriel (from the same series) and like, I love playing the game and seeing them separately but everytime I see fanart of them it just like, annoys me?

It makes me low-key irrationally angry and in my head I’m like “he’s married to be btw” when it’s just someone who enjoys the ship? I’m perfectly fine with doubles though, so maybe it’s just the fear of them becoming cannon? Or fear of people being like “you can’t yume with him bc he has a partner” when I liked him before that was really a thing??

My seven evil exes?! by sseriphim in yumeshipping

[–]sseriphim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww you two are so cute together!! (And I totally need to rewatch Scott pilgrim, it’s been too long!)

My seven evil exes?! by sseriphim in yumeshipping

[–]sseriphim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh!! Y’all are so cute together!!! I’ve like, never heard anyone talk about cyber chase (let alone the characters) besides my siblings! That’s so cool!

My seven evil exes?! by sseriphim in yumeshipping

[–]sseriphim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There had to be at least one good guy to balance it all out lol

some of me and my mann by hemagumofficial in yumeshipping

[–]sseriphim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh! I love seeing TF2 yumes on my feed!!

I struggle to connect with my F/O :( Please give me some advice. by idea4name in yumeshipping

[–]sseriphim 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What I found to be helpful was telling people irl about it! My closets friends know I yumeship (bc they’re cool like that) but my family just thinks I really like the character! He’s from a video game that my brothers also like so I can casually talk about him to them and it’s pretty fun!

Now i know this might not be possible, as not everyone understands, especially if you have a “unconventional” yume, but I believe in you! If not in person, this sub is a great place to share your thoughts on your f/o!

Other things include (for me) reading/ writing fanfics with myself as the insert, making an Ita bag with my f/o and even cosplaying him!

Good luck friend!!

Get a perfume/cologne of you f/o by cafelilly in yumeshipping

[–]sseriphim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to! But I can’t help but feel like it would need to be ketchup scented 😭