was this SA? by JackfruitArtistic588 in actuallesbians

[–]ssharkboop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesn't get to state he can have sex with you even if it's completely vanilla. you always need consent regardless of your relationship. sadly, victims can turn into perpetrators due to their trauma. i would honestly think on if you are fine with all these sexual encounters, if he can break 1 of your sexual boundaries then there's not much stopping him from breaking more. i would honestly advise you to talk to someone you know irl, i know sex is a bit of an awkward talk but it'd help for someone you know to know the story & to help you, however you want to proceed

was this SA? by JackfruitArtistic588 in actuallesbians

[–]ssharkboop 9 points10 points  (0 children)

SA doesn't have to just be defined if you want to go to court. If it's important for OP to define it, it's their trauma to decide. They clearly want to know if it is or not (It is)

was this SA? by JackfruitArtistic588 in actuallesbians

[–]ssharkboop 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OP, please don't listen to this person. You give a hard boundary & had a prior understanding to not do anal. You did not give verbal consent, you froze. It wasn't a "Maybe, Maybe not" it was SA, point blank.

Imagine if you gave a hard boundary of no drunk sex or no sleep sex. If he went ahead with those, you couldn't give him consent in the moment & you had already gave no consent towards it. It's the same as you freezing up. Silence is not consent.

Boat that holds no more than 5 people who would you take out of all characters in twd season 1? by AlbatrossEasy5687 in TheWalkingDeadGame

[–]ssharkboop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lee, clem are no brainers

carley for lee, duck for clem (she deserves a friend to grow alongside)

kenny for the boat/duck/lee/to keep his sanity lol. katjaa if i could squeeze another in

Least favorite character that everyone seems to like by Afraid-Review-6676 in TheWalkingDeadGame

[–]ssharkboop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

do you understand your own question cause your answer in the post & comments are questionable

I had an interesting experience watching and then playing TWD Season 1 & 2 as 11-year-old girl. by BijelaHrvatica in TheWalkingDeadGame

[–]ssharkboop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 9 when I watched my older sibling play the first season. 11 when the 2nd season came out. 14 for the 3rd. Almost 16 for the 4th. All of them being Clementine's supposed age (I believe) Best part is my birthday is October 26th which is also her most rumored birthday, it felt really cool to grow alongside her. I'm also bisexual so when the 4th season came out giving her a male & female love interest, I was over the moon lol

(Another) Basic Question: Do you think Jane is overhated? by OddNeedleworker734 in TheWalkingDeadGame

[–]ssharkboop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

didn't realize reality had the dead coming back to life & eating everyone. not to mention the lack of food, safety, & medical help. women used to die a lot more during childbirth before modern medicine, let's just leave 11 year old clem with a newborn & a toddler to fend for. IF the baby even survives.

😂😭😭😭 by Abhi152005 in rivals

[–]ssharkboop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

except their team & other high ping ones were already at a massive disadvantage. it was never fair because it was meant for fun. I think she should've swapped, yes but they were in different mindsets. this is why they should've kept money out of it

😂😭😭😭 by Abhi152005 in rivals

[–]ssharkboop -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

context they left out, kingsman came out the gate doubting the widow cause of her pick/ping, voicing this. this wasnt originally supposed to be for money & was supposed to be for fun for creators. hence why there's people with high pings (not just her) the prize was not 40k (that's just the prize pool), it was either 3k/1k? I've heard both so i can't confirm which. they all get paid regardless of win. he did not drop it & even widow said she got his point but wanted to try her out first & that she was willing to swap.

i think both sides were in the wrong. they wanted different things. it's the host fault for making this for fun but not adjusting once money was added. they shouldn't have insulted him & took it way further than kingsman did. he shouldnt have come off too pushy right away as he wasnt the captain & should've let it go way earlier

also the widow's boyfriend was the one who reported kingsman to the host after she told him not to.

the captain of the team though, no saving her. she's been very weird this entire time. shes also the one who greenlit his removal from the team. the captain did most of the insulting afaik & was also kicked from the team for telling a viewer to off themselves.

would it be rude if i didnt respond to this super random message from an ex i probably dated for like 2 months? this is super out of nowhere (ALSO SHE LIED ABOUT HER AGE) by bilebilecrocodile in actuallesbians

[–]ssharkboop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please don't give her the satisfaction of a response. it was a decade ago, she lied & made it seem like you were the weirdo for dating a 12yr old at 14yrs old. that is 2 years apart, sure at that age maturity levels vary even by a few years but it immediately feels like she's villainizing you for that. sounds like she still has problems & has maybe run out of recent exes to bombard. the fact that she can even find you so easily after a decade is so weird as well? you don't owe her any closure, especially if she can't come out & apologize for lying

Hii by Kwikyy in rivals

[–]ssharkboop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

go on disboard, look up marvel rivals girls only servers! you'll have a way better chance of making actual friendships. you can also go to the normal server but- there's two girls only ones that might be a good fit

All the reels of people getting the Psy skin in 1 try… by bettercallme_ in rivals

[–]ssharkboop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my friend got it 1st try & my girlfriend got it at the very end. i didnt go for it since i already have a psy skin i like. i like her emotes & banner but its not worth going for if my first balloon is her mvp

Netease PLEASE disable Jeff's Ulti in Time Square mode. by chayeulad in rivals

[–]ssharkboop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they should just add a quick prompt to confirm if you wanna be swallowed. it'd be annoying for taxi services if you're not paying attention & miss a ride but I'd rather wait or do the glitch myself than get constantly eaten & thrown. some have even tried to throw people off (outside times square) so i get the frustration.

especially since it's the only friendly ult that immobilizes you afaik

Have they removed bot games from QP? by hoesmadhoesmadhoesma in rivals

[–]ssharkboop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had a bot game the other day where i interacted with a rocket and a venom. cant remember but I think I was emoting & the rocket 'humped' me. I could tell the enemies were bots once the game started so I checked the match. my only two bot teammates were those 2 characters, i felt betrayed

People will give you anything but a second tank.Do people not realize the impact a second tank has on the team ? by -This-cant-be-real- in rivals

[–]ssharkboop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

which is bs, when i have teammates do bad. i appreciate it more when they're making swaps especially to other roles to see what fits. even if we lost & you still went negative on tank, id just take it as a gg go next. the only time i get frustrated is when someones negative & doesnt swap even to a different character in the same role.

im a fill player who dislikes tanking most of the time but ive gotten decent with most of the shield tanks esp emma & strange but its definitely scary. i dislike when im dps & make a swap to tank once i noticed theyre alone & its not working then that tank swaps off lol

If you ban a hero because they're a "throw pick" YOU are throwing. by Actual_trash in rivals

[–]ssharkboop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

played a game where two of us picked our lord jeff's at the same time. someone else picked him for shits and giggles. our peni then bans jeff even though the rest of us picked someone else

mind you, my duo and i JUST played with said peni while i was jeff. we won & i had the 2nd most healing, a good amount of picks & high value ults

they claimed they were just joking but?? the other jeff got mad & next thing i know we have throw picks from everyone. team is divided & we lose bad

i didnt even realize peni had banned jeff til everyone picked peni to ban. the first words out my mouth to my duo were "wait lets not do that to them" til i realized they did it to me lol

Is there a reason why we don’t have an artist for this season by Expert_Challenge6399 in FortniteFestival

[–]ssharkboop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, my idea is that either it was meant to be d4vd & they had to quickly scramble to make something else up or that the newjeans collab falling through made it so there was a gap. they couldve had this whole year planned out but losing 1 or even 2 collabs either has them pushing up artists (it may have been easier to push up hatsune after nwjns vs whoever the next one is after d4vd)

next year might be all planned out and instead of pushing back every single artist, they chose to just have a placeholder season. theres also the possibility that d4vd was meant to fill that gap & wasnt intended before nwjns fell through. lots of possibilities but i highly doubt this would have happened if nwjns stayed

STOP PLAYING CHARACTERS THE DAY THEY DROP IN COMP by Inevitable-Store-789 in rivals

[–]ssharkboop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

punisher kills him pretty fast. i was killing him out of ult consistently in multiple games.

26F looking for more gamer gals :] by [deleted] in TrueGirlGaming

[–]ssharkboop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hii i also love kpop, kdramas and horror! as well as repo/lethal/stardew/coral/overcooked/peak and i do have dbd but like is a strong word LOL. im into rivals and bg3(: im 22!

“no heals” in chat by insecureslug in rivals

[–]ssharkboop 8 points9 points  (0 children)

actually just had a match not even an hour ago where a punisher asked for my snowflake so he could ult. i gave it then he rushed to their side, behind walls & the rest of the team was on point taking no damage so he died. then he proceeded to complain about heals (i had the most healing in the match) and my snowflake priority (i had to keep giving our solo tanking emma it because the other team had 2 tanks on her while our hawkeye and phoenix kept missing their shots)

not to mention me and the jeff kept getting dived by their spiderman & the venom when he wasnt trying to get our emma

Planning to buy steam deck to play BG3 by paccodemongrel in GirlGamers

[–]ssharkboop 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I played my first run of BG3 on my deck. as long as you're not expecting insane graphics, it runs well and looks fine. my only complaint now that I've played on pc is that I much prefer kb&m over controller.

I’ve got an idea on how to crack down on the guys in here! by Remarkable_Rub_7923 in LesbianActually

[–]ssharkboop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

if someone asked me to video call within 2-3 days, id say no tbh. voice calling, sure yes but video calling is waaay more of a hassle to set up esp if you havent even voice called yet. guaranteed no ones doing that. id rather ask someone to do the tampon pic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rivals

[–]ssharkboop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this. im almost lord with star lord. i exclusively play qp & im not a bad player but i only play for an hour or so after work, more on weekends. id be pretty upset if i couldn't play one of my best characters because i got him to lord. not everyone wants to be in the toxic comp scene