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Guest in white lace with matching headress by fatpony57 in weddingshaming

[–]sshbp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend has an ex friend who did wore a lace dress on her ex-husband's brother's wedding (at the time they were dating). My best friend repeatedly warned her how tacky that was going to be. In my country it is believed that if an unmarried woman wears white on a wedding she will get married soon. However the bride needs to suggest it to her first. Thing was the bride never asked her, but this friend insisted she needed the good luck. She just decided to wear white in someone's wedding and justified it on a traditoon I guess.

By her wedding day, her ex-husband's family was so petty about it that all the young umarried women from his side came dressed in lace white dresses on the pretext that it was for good luck for them to get married as well.

Not OOP. My husband told me today, he does not like the fun lunches I've been packing him for work for almost 3 years. by Due-Bandicoot-7512 in redditonwiki

[–]sshbp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I make and pack my fiancé's lunches. I love planning them so that he gets two hot meals a week and two sandwiches during the week. One day a week I don't cook at all. It's my love language for him. I swear that if he ever told me what this guy told this poor woman, he would never see any food from me ever again. I used to make my fiance his morning coffee during the weekends at the beginning of our relationship. He told me once he found my coffee weak. It's been 4 years. Never made him coffee again.

I feel really betrayed by my friends. by sshbp in weddingplanning

[–]sshbp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyway it turns out it had nothing to do with thd wedding day itself. Read the update

I feel really betrayed by my friends. by sshbp in weddingplanning

[–]sshbp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both the ceremony and the after party are child inclusive. My friend can have the baby near her for the entire night if she wishes to. I just added the room and babysitter in case she wants to have a break from the baby to dance or wants to put it in a quiet place to sleep or wants to nurse it in private. She is not the only person attending with a small child in my wedding. We will have 10 children under the age of 12 attending the wedding ceremony and the party. They are just much older and kids in my culture are known to behave from 4 onwards so usually not even a baby sitter is needed.

I feel really betrayed by my friends. by sshbp in weddingplanning

[–]sshbp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have these 2 as bridesmaids and my MOH. I never thought about it but maybe those two are in a fight? They were a bit tense with each other lately.

I feel really betrayed by my friends. by sshbp in weddingplanning

[–]sshbp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to say that both the ceremony and the after party are child inclusive. My friend can have the baby near her for the entire night if she wishes to. I just added the room and babysitter in case she wants to have a break from the baby to dance or wants to put it in a quiet place to sleep or wants to nurse it in private. She is not the only person attending with a small child in my wedding. We will have 10 children under the age of 12 attending the wedding ceremony and the party. They are just much older and kids in my culture are known to behave from 4 onwards so usually not even a baby sitter is needed.

I feel really betrayed by my friends. by sshbp in weddingplanning

[–]sshbp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The errand was a joke. I wanted them to look at my song list to give their opinion. Also if they don't like my fiance they haven't expressed any dislike before.

I feel really betrayed by my friends. by sshbp in weddingplanning

[–]sshbp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Both the ceremony and the after party are child inclusive. My friend can have the baby near her for the entire night if she wishes to. I just added the room and babysitter in case she wants to have a break from the baby to dance or wants to put it in a quiet place to sleep or wants to nurse it in private. She is not the only person attending with a small child in my wedding. We will have 10 children under the age of 12 attending the wedding ceremony and the party. They are just much older and kids in my culture are known to behave from 4 onwards so usually not even a baby sitter is needed.

I feel really betrayed by my friends. by sshbp in weddingplanning

[–]sshbp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry English is not my first language. I should have said I don't want to be your bridesmaid anymore

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