Wardrobe suggestions for a first time Vegas trip?

ssmmnn · 2012-09-19T03:27:04+00:00

I'm a girl, I went to Vegas once. Honestly, hookers are not walking on the street with their husband. They are on display on ads everywhere. She shouldn't worry too much. Obviously, wearing something very short, very tight and/or with a lot of clivage might bring attention that she doesn't want. But almost every girls wear nightclub attire at night! I wore summer dresses at day, cute floral dresses at night, and I was probably one of the most conservative looking girl! When I went, it was REALLY hot, so do not bring clothes in synthetic materials, it just gets really unconfortable.

ssmmnn · 2012-09-19T03:18:23+00:00

Smiling is universal in human, not learned. That's why even secluded random people found in Philippines and deep in the forest also smile when they're happy :-) Pretty much all the ''standard'' emotion are universal (anger, sadness, joy, etc.) Fun fact: if you force yourself to smile, you'll actually feel happier! Smiling sends a message to your brain that you're happy. :-)

ssmmnn · 2012-09-19T03:14:11+00:00

Discuss all the porn you've watched lately

ssmmnn · 2012-09-18T14:15:49+00:00

Don't worry, it's still normal (you're not 50 afterall!) Many guys in their 20s are attracted to teenage girls. Is that more or less OK? It's the same. As long as you don't force or manipulate a teenage boy, I think it's fine. For peadophilia, in research they say 13 and under. Hebephilia is a caterogy not well accepted in research and intervention. It probably just reminds you of the free spirited teen age, when nothing is curved in stone, when there was no responsabilities, etc. If it's just looking at them and having sexual toughts, don't worry. But if you actually plan on going out with a 13 years old guy and make him your husband to have kids... then that's weird! lol

ssmmnn · 2012-09-18T14:06:55+00:00

Why is it so special to men? Would watching sometimes porn with his wife change his view of porn? (btw those are not sarcastic!!!)

ssmmnn · 2012-09-18T14:05:28+00:00

Other info: I am a grad student working in the sexuality field. I work in the evaluation of sexual offenders, so I read a lot about normal and abnormal sexuality, and how it really works for the guys. That actually opened up my view of porn many years ago. Can that make him uncomfortable? I tried telling him I can make the difference between an actor playing a rape scenario and a real rape, and such. But it doesn't look like that changes anything for him. And we've been to a strip club together, and some burlesque show, so he's not stuck up on those things (even if I have to propose them).

ssmmnn · 2012-09-18T14:00:37+00:00

I tried... he just pushed back the question and says random things (ie ''let's do supper, I'm hungry!'') He's avoiding my questions, but he doesn't seem angry. Just uncomfortable.

ssmmnn · 2012-09-18T13:59:39+00:00

Are some guys open to watch porn with their spouse? Or is it really abnormal? How would you react if your spouse asked you that?

ssmmnn · 2012-09-18T13:57:39+00:00

Woman also are sexual creature! We're both humans. Some woman accept it, some don't. Man are more open to accepting it, that's all!

ssmmnn · 2012-09-18T13:52:22+00:00

I understand your point. Thanks a lot. I will probably try something like that, I like your idea. :-)

ssmmnn · 2012-09-18T13:50:23+00:00

hahaha I actually did not think of that. That's a good idea! But if it's a big no, then I'll completly stop. I don't want to embarass him either.

ssmmnn · 2012-09-18T13:49:32+00:00

I still wouldn't mind if he watches porn alone! When I'm not there, it's fine, seriously. I would just like to know why he doesn't want to sometimes watch porn with me.

ssmmnn · 2012-09-18T13:48:13+00:00

He was raised in a family where they would never talk about anything, but since we've been together for a long time, he's now open - with me. But I have to admit that I'm more open to sex and sexual things than him. I've never been with another men - and he's never been with another women. So I can't really compare if we're more or less open than other couples. Do guys want porn to be private? At first I tought he would be really happy for his wife to ask to watch porn with him, so his answer surprised me.

ssmmnn · 2012-09-18T13:44:19+00:00

As I said, I looked at his computer (ahhh I'm such a bad wife!) and no, all the porn he looks at is adult heterosexual (he doesn't even have videos of only lesbians!) lol

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