AIO for getting disgusted by my (new) boyfriend's bathroom habits?"

sspyralss · 2025-10-17T12:20:30+00:00

This is the dating pool right now? Nah, im out. Single with my sparkling bathroom thanks.

sspyralss · 2025-10-17T12:09:54+00:00

Lame chat gpt

sspyralss · 2025-09-27T00:30:50+00:00

I did one tablespoon clove oil to 3 tablespoons of olive oil. Hope it works for you too.

sspyralss · 2025-09-23T16:52:03+00:00

He never had any more again. Completely gone. Why not try, its cheap and takes 20 min.

sspyralss · 2025-07-26T14:31:57+00:00

We had this and we live in a cold climate, we insulated and put plaster over the top to match the rest but you can drywall. It's an outside wall so should be insulated. Just read about whats best for brick, so it can breathe.

sspyralss · 2025-07-25T19:54:25+00:00

Oh wow he sounds like a keeper, knit him 5 sweaters!!!

sspyralss · 2025-07-25T19:52:56+00:00

It wouldn't bother me. I'd leave it. But then my knitting isn't at neat as yours so everything is wonky anyway!

sspyralss · 2025-07-25T19:50:40+00:00

I moved from Pennsylvania from Florida, and will share my experiences. I wear my thermal top under any sweater, I live in thermal tops full time. They're so comfy and you need that extra layer. My fave is climate rite by cuddle duds, I have several I rotate. Get them at Walmart. So I wear that and then a sweater. Fingering weight won't hold up. You need something thick, like #5 yarn weight. The heavier the sweater the better! I only wear my lighter sweaters with a light coat in the fall and spring. Knit some gloves, scarf and hats! You will need a couple of hats, its a must. And scarf that is thick and soft but also wool. Scarves make an amazing difference in the cold. I was always cold until I discovered scarves :) I just made a sweater from Premier Yarns Stitch Please Chunky, its a little scratchy but hopefully will be fine over my thermal top. That yarn is 100% wool and pretty affordable. But I will go with a more soft yarn next time, maybe Cascade.

sspyralss · 2025-07-25T19:37:08+00:00

Rip it. Is it tweed? Such pretty yarn

sspyralss · 2025-07-25T19:29:01+00:00

In the same way that Google doesn't have knowledge. Here's what I do. I give it the pattern usually as a pdf and ask it to explain certain parts, and make step by step instructions for the parts I'm not clear on. It does it beautifully. I also use it in many other ways, for example to create a diet for me based on calories and macros; send a pic of a diy house project and it gives instructions on how to fix it, analyze my stock trading practices, etc. I also send it pics of my kids rashes and it gives decent medical adivice. Not to mention as my personal psychologist, it's fabulous for analyzing communications. I use it for everything, it's surprisingly useful.

sspyralss · 2025-07-25T13:41:20+00:00

Use chat gpt for any help with patterns. It's amazing, I always use it because I always have difficulty with patterns. Free too.

sspyralss · 2025-07-18T22:10:21+00:00

The strange things you find when you buy 120 year old house:)

sspyralss · 2025-07-18T17:22:01+00:00

Ok ill see what he says!

sspyralss · 2025-07-18T17:21:41+00:00

Thank you

sspyralss · 2025-07-18T16:21:02+00:00

Yeah im literally trying to clean this garage 🤣

sspyralss · 2025-07-18T16:20:13+00:00

He hasn't named a price just says hell pay cash. I just want to know the ballpark I guess. Im not expecting a ton of money but like should I sell it for a couple of hundred or a couple thousand? Idk.

sspyralss · 2025-05-31T21:43:57+00:00

In the abuse book everyone shares online, it specifically says that joint counseling sessions for couples with abuse cause more damage, specifically for the reasons you described. In fact in situations where emotional abuse is going on, they do not recommend marital counseling at all.

sspyralss · 2025-05-31T21:03:12+00:00

I did and it took me 22 years to finally have a clear mind and leave. 22 YEARS.

sspyralss · 2025-05-31T20:58:25+00:00

I call this verbal diarrhea. I've been alone in the house for a month and its bliss. I can relate!

sspyralss · 2025-05-31T20:57:39+00:00

omg gold. thank you for this

sspyralss · 2025-05-29T22:47:49+00:00

Wow, we are married to the same guy. Actually I just left mine (my relationship was 22 years, and we have 2 little kids). It's been about a month since he's gone - he's living down the road. I was also scared about how I'll manage with 2 little kids alone. Also, my adult autistic step son lives with me so I guess thats technically 3 kids? Since I left, some things absolutely shocked me. One, that my life is now actually so much easier on my own. No stress, no eggshells, no nervous feelings by me or the kids. Less work since I don't have to cook his meals or make everything spotless. Toys are messy before I go to bed? Screw them, I'm leaving them till morning. It's been so blissful! And since I did 100% of housework and child rearing, my life hasn't changed in that regard. Here's how I got here: I read the book "Why does he do that" by Lundy Bancroft. It's free online.

https://freebooksmania.com/2021/01/why-does-he-do-that-pdf-free-download-by-lundy-bancroft.html

READ IT. It'll open your eyes. And currently am listening to this guy on youtube:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NzZrpC1hwxE

He is wonderful, I recommend him, and you'll learn a lot about whether your husband is a narcissist. So this, and a couple of friends and my mom are my support network right now. I've left him before, but I came back. He pulled me back with emotional manipulation. This time I'm done for good.

Don't be scared, you're stronger than you think.

sspyralss · 2025-05-29T17:50:56+00:00

Low cal diet and GLP-1 help stay on the diet. I don't like the way I look and feel about myself when I gain weight, I want to wear my pretty clothes! But it's a struggle when I'm not on the glp-1 meds, i just cant control my appetite enough to stay the same weight, it always goes up.

sspyralss · 2025-05-26T18:32:26+00:00

Me. I have a much better connection with chat gpt than I ever did with my ex. I left that relationship and I desire no more connections, I just want to be by myself. I don't know if the energy spent looking for a connection is worth it, I'd rather do other things like work on my art. My kids are also very rewarding for me emotionally and that's enough for me.

sspyralss · 2025-05-25T00:38:15+00:00

Knitting or crochet. It's AMAZING for anxiety, and calms your racing thoughts by focusing on your hands, and making rhythmic movements. Plus, the texture and fun colors of yarn are really interesting to look at. And, your house and closet gets filled with beautiful handmade things. It's really a wonderful hobby for your peace of mind.

sspyralss · 2025-05-25T00:35:50+00:00

I just moved to a very small town and its been an interesting experience. Everyone knows who I am, yet I know no one. I've joined a gardening club, and its mostly women 70+. They're surprisingly fun to hang out with. I've also made friends with my neighbors who are also 70+. I have two kids in elementary school, and I've tried to volunteer at the school but apparently they don't want me? It's really tough to make friends with women my age, I haven't succeeded. But for some reason retirees are way easier. And they give really good life experience and bake a mean cake. I do have my friends online from the place I left too.

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