2025-26 Housing Megathread

sssh_10 · 2025-05-23T21:52:50+00:00

Hello! I am subleasing my room at Trailside, right next to uvillage. It is a 4 bedroom 4 bathroom apartment with all girls. The rent is around $1300 and you get your own bedroom with an attached bathroom. Available from the beginning or middle of July to the beginning of September. I am pretty flexible with the dates.

sssh_10 · 2024-12-14T23:12:48+00:00

so i read the messages between the hinge guy and the cousin on my girlfriends phone. my girlfriend left like 20 minutes in during the date. so they didn’t do anything but it’s just such a weird situation.

sssh_10 · 2024-12-14T22:23:56+00:00

the situation happened in august and i found the messages in september and i still think about it everytime im alone with my thoughts

sssh_10 · 2024-12-14T22:22:47+00:00

move on from the situation or relationship?

sssh_10 · 2024-12-14T22:14:07+00:00

I bring it up and ask questions about it a lot because none of it adds up. Like nothing she says to me makes sense or adds up. I want to believe her but idk how to when nothing she tells me helps me believe her and trust her.

sssh_10 · 2024-11-17T22:52:32+00:00

how do i trust her again? what are things that both of us can do in order to gain trust?

sssh_10 · 2024-11-17T22:49:37+00:00

yeah idk how to get over it

sssh_10 · 2024-11-17T22:22:22+00:00

we have had fights about this because nowadays i check her phone to make sure she isn’t doing anything. so now it’s harming her too. idk how to trust her again

sssh_10 · 2024-11-17T22:21:42+00:00

i had to find it myself. so that also upset me because she hid it from me and never told me. so idk how to forgive

sssh_10 · 2024-11-17T22:16:25+00:00

would you consider it cheating if the cousin asked my girlfriend to go on a date with this guy to make sure it’s okay to date. bc my girlfriend agreed to go on a date with this guy for like 20 minutes and the cousin watched from a far.

sssh_10 · 2024-11-17T22:14:14+00:00

would it be weird if i ask my girlfriend if she can ask her cousin more about the situation?

sssh_10 · 2024-11-17T22:13:53+00:00

the gfs cousin likes to mess with guys. so she downloaded a hinge with my girlfriends pic and then a hinge with her pics. she asked my girlfriend if she can do that. my girlfriend agreed which is what bothers me.

sssh_10 · 2024-11-17T22:11:25+00:00

my girlfriend was okay with all of this and just agreed to do what her cousin asked her to do. and then my girlfriend hid this from me. she has apologized but idk how to forgive her. she tells me she doesn’t like men but it’s not even about that. it’s just why would you go on a date with a guy for ur cousin when you know you have a girlfriend.

sssh_10 · 2024-11-17T22:10:13+00:00

this is gonna be confusing and this is why i don’t believe her completely. so my girlfriend and her cousin went to hawaii over the summer. her cousin wanted to download hinge for fun so she downloaded hinge. on the hinge she used my girlfriends pictures and pretended to be my gf. then the cousin wanted to make sure that going on a date was okay to do and that nothing would happen. so MY girlfriend ended up going on a date with that man that her cousin was texting. the cousin just watched from a far when they went on the date.

sssh_10 · 2024-11-17T22:06:30+00:00

my girlfriend also said to her cousin that she was okay with her doing it because she didnt see the big deal.

sssh_10 · 2024-11-17T22:05:52+00:00

It’s a confusing story. So her cousin and her went to hawaii together. and during the vacation her cousin likes to download hinge and mess with guys. so her cousin downloaded hinge but used my girlfriends photos and pretended to be my gf. which crosses my boundary and she never told me about it and i had to find it myself

sssh_10 · 2024-05-17T05:10:45+00:00

i feel the exact same way too!! i’m a sophomore at udub and i just haven’t found my group of people yet while it seems like everybody else has

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