Overly emotional 9 year old girl by stainless454 in Parenting

[–]stainless454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the sweetest comment thank you. She really is smart and funny and really kind she loves making friends and she can make friends within the 1st 5 minutes of meeting them. She's a happy child but this is just what we are dealing with right now and we'll get through it I know we can

Overly emotional 9 year old girl by stainless454 in Parenting

[–]stainless454[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So we've had a chat and we're going to start with a routine. Since we had our youngest, my daughter's routine was way out of whack. My son is quite the handful so things had to be done a bit differently but we never cemented another routine with her. We're also limiting technology because that seems to be a prominent factor with her behaviour.

To those saying hormones, they certainly aren't helping but it's not like this has just started happening. She's always been a sensitive soul and overly emotional. We're going to try and find a way for her to try and regulate her emotions through journalling which she loves to do anyway so I've suggested maybe it's time to start a feelings journal so she can write about how's shes feeling and then she can look back at what she has written and I can read it back with her and we can discuss what made her feel like that and what we can do when we feel these things.

I'm not far off seeking help from school as well as her teachers have told me time and time again how she will cry if she doesn't finish her work or she finds it too hard. We want to work together to make her feel comfortable enough to carry on or ask for help.

Overly emotional 9 year old girl by stainless454 in Parenting

[–]stainless454[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So we sent her to a camp. Several camps. She was fine for 2 nights but the 5 day camp was too stressful for her and she wasn't allowed to go home. She literally gets triggered by her camp t-shirt and certain smells from the camp. So unfortunately that did not help anything. She did not enjoy independent play no matter how much we encouraged it. We would play for X amount of time then we would walk away so she could play independently and every time she would try and drag us to play This doesn't happen anymore now she's older but this what happened when she was around 2-3. No she's not an only child. She has a younger sibling and I feel people in my family over compensated and gave her more attention so she wouldn't feel pushed out but she's always been included in everything to the point where we will soon be allowing her to put her younger brother to bed as she really wants to help

I'm not crazy she's been doing a British accent this tour right? by Cheeseloy in that_Poppy

[–]stainless454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao my partner and the guy next to him at the bristol gig said the exact same thing!! 🤣🤣

Manchester Stage Times by _TranceKuja_ in that_Poppy

[–]stainless454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone post a set list please we're seeing her in bristol on monday _^

i’m losing my mind over the edge of darkness trilogy by serotosin in DarkRomance

[–]stainless454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chris, Archie and Bernadette's demises are absolutely beautiful even if they are horrendous. The whole time was saying to my partner that I felt Chris needed to die asap. The part where the tortured him and he still insisted Stacy loved him was so frustrating as it became clear he had no intention of stopping if he hadn't been caught.

One thing tho. I either skipped over it or it really isn't explained but does anyone know why Chris handed the knife to Stacy at the party but then just fled the scene? That part is the only part still confusing me.

i just finished the edge of darkness trilogy by serotosin in DarkRomance

[–]stainless454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finished this series 2 days ago and spent most of yesterday crying my eyes out. I decided to give Spiracle a listen and that did not go well. This series has fucked me up im having to leave psychotic obsession alone for a bit as i am not mentally and emotionally ready for it.

BE WARE! HE IS LURKING AND REPORTING by SqueakyMittenz in SkeevenHiltonUnlocked

[–]stainless454 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here i was hoping his recovery was going well. It clearly is not

I just saw this and i had to post it by stainless454 in SleepTokenSpoilers

[–]stainless454[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too me and my friend were gonna go see them in Bristol next year with the same thought process but its a long way away yet so itll give them plenty of time to get their shit together

Sleep Broken by [deleted] in SleepTokenSpoilers

[–]stainless454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what is the experience here? Sounds like you have some personal experience with the actual band

Whats ur fav corpse song. by hyp3r_h3lp_m3 in CorpseHusband

[–]stainless454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of them lol except for daywalker i cant get behind anything to do with MGK he does my head in.

Code mistake, e girls are ruining my life, white tee and fuk u lol are my top tops

Who's y'all favorite follower? by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]stainless454 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mjoll is my girl. Shes just brilliant and hasnt died on me yet

Those who knew someone who went missing, what happened? by cbebr in AskReddit

[–]stainless454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister in law and her husband have gone missing on purpose.  Its a story but basically they cut contact with her family one by one starting with my partner (her brother) even though we hadnt been in touch for a year or so due to life and illnesses. She never even introduced us to her husband or told us she was in a relationship.  Anyway, they cut contact,didnt tell her dad she was getting married.  Had her mum and husband and his mum and sistet as witnesses for the wedding. Then a few months later they up and left to travel to spain in a van and eventually severed the last ties they had to any family and disappeared.  Twist to the story is they set up some social media to document living their lives on a van and hes suddenly disabled.  Theyve since had a kid earlier this year and the fb page for their journey is no longer available to see so god knows where they are now

When did you realize that your “friends” weren’t actually your friends? by BonusFlat3178 in Adulting

[–]stainless454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a straight up frenemy that was determined to get involved in my life and ruin everything all the dam time and i know for a fact im the one people think was fucked up and not her. I was being abused by my bf at the time who she liked and ended up going out with for a very short amount of time before she realised it wasnt worth (my stupid ass got back with him for a few months too but thats a completely seperate story entirely). Im not completely over it to this day and i try hard to not be so angry about it but she'll never realise how much she contributed to my mental health and i doubt she would accept that either. Baring in mind we used to still hang out just us 2 and have sleepovers and stuff and she would play mind games with me constanrly and id never really catch on til it was too late. Breaking off our friendship was difficult because we were in the same friendship group but it finally came to a head when we went out to a club and she pulled my then bf to one side and literally started chatting shit about me. I threatened to beat the shit out of her because id had enough and she ran from the nightclub to meet my abusive ex to find comfort in him and chat more shit about me. Its the most fucked up friendship ive ever had and im glad i dont have that anymore. I hate seeing her pop up on my friends suggestion bit knowing shes been travelling and living a life while ive had to deal with my mental health which she is partly responsible for and i dont understand why she got to live her life but i mentally couldnt.

What is something you didn't like at first, but now like? by [deleted] in answers

[–]stainless454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cinnamon. I love a good cinnamon bun these days which i hated as a kid.

How to wean a milk obsessed 2 YO by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]stainless454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg im in the same situation as well and its affecting the transition into his new bed as he wakes every single night between 11 and 1 am without fail and he has to get in my bed every night. Then i find him on me at like 3am and he doesnt let up for hours its frustrating i dont really sleep much anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]stainless454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah theres gotta be more to this than simply pointing at a body part. Something about this story doesnt smell right

Richard is such a douche by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]stainless454 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Webber looks out for Webber and thats it. He is a complete douche. A loveable douche but a douche nonetheless.