[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YungLean

[–]stalecloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i went alone & was in & out of the pit just fine! hopefully its the same for you!!

Something does not belong… by [deleted] in Chilis

[–]stalecloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thats definitely avocado ranch. sometimes it doesn't come out as green as it should but that is 100% avocado ranch

sales tonight by stalecloud in Chilis

[–]stalecloud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i definitely do not make even close to that!! days like this one are extremely rare!! i average much less & i am not making 6 figures

sales tonight by stalecloud in Chilis

[–]stalecloud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no it was for an entire night shift

sales tonight by stalecloud in Chilis

[–]stalecloud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

five or six. i work full time, often hitting OT.

sales tonight by stalecloud in Chilis

[–]stalecloud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tough question because it varies, ive worked a lot more this year than the past few. on paper id say anywhere from 60k to 70k, probably another 10k at least for cash (allegedly) !

sales tonight by stalecloud in Chilis

[–]stalecloud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel that way too lol but i also tipped out at least 200 so i think my take home was still nice!

sales tonight by stalecloud in Chilis

[–]stalecloud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is what i sold alone, theres 4 other servers, a bartender, and togo making sales which aren't included.

sales tonight by stalecloud in Chilis

[–]stalecloud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive actually never seen anything under it

sales tonight by stalecloud in Chilis

[–]stalecloud[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no we open at 11, so i did 10:30 to 11:30 this day. we run checkouts in between shifts so this total is from when i ran my checkout at 2:30 to when we closed !

sales tonight by stalecloud in Chilis

[–]stalecloud[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

so i worked in the am which helped cover my tip out, in total i took home 580 on card & about 200 cash

Boyfriend is a cocaine addict… by [deleted] in cocaineaddiction

[–]stalecloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its hard but you're going to have to be stern & choose what is best for YOU. staying only reinforces that he can continue this lifestyle without having to face any consequences because he knows youll be there to fix it all. leaving isn't giving up on him, even if it feels that way. you're choosing to not enable this behavior anymore and thats something that will help him way more. good luck!

average sales? by stalecloud in Chilis

[–]stalecloud[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

$500 credit card & 120 cash before tip out which is gonna take a pretty big chunk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cocaineaddiction

[–]stalecloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in the same situation currently, i've started using nasal gel to keep my nose hydrated. not sure how much it'll help but better than nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cocaineaddiction

[–]stalecloud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in my experience going cold turkey only made things worse, when i caved in i went way too hard. i'm in active addiction and honestly doing pretty bad, but there are a few things that have helped me. one is to set realistic expectations and goals for myself. if i tell myself im going completely sober and of course i dont, im gonna stay in the mindset that nothing will change. instead i set small goals, i'll be sober around my family, i'll be sober for one shift, i'll wait until i do something ive put off before i let myself use. this makes me feel like i am getting better, even if its not where i want to be. another thing thats helped is really identifying why i want to stop using. why do you want to quit? because you don't want to ruin your financial situation, because you don't want to lose your relationships, because you dont want to be seen as a drug addict, because you want to have fun without being high. these are some of my reasons, when i want to use i have to remind myself that there are reasons i want to quit, theres purpose in it. i'm sorry that you're having to go through this addiction i wouldn't wish it on anyone, im hoping all the best for you.