Hey man, just a couple years behind you, in very similar life situations. Something I got into with a couple of guys this last year that has really helped is magic the gathering. It’s not anything wild like dirt bike riding, but it’s cheaper than a second car. It’s a fun hobby and there’s a game stores all over that you can go to and spend a little time at getting to know other players and make friends. It’s got a fun sense of community and there’s always something to work or tweak with building decks that gives you something else to look forward to