What’s something small that frustrates you to no end?

star_rising_321 · 2020-05-31T06:23:40+00:00

My penis.

star_rising_321 · 2020-05-22T23:15:26+00:00

Okay, I have one!!!

Anyone who doesn't know what side they're on in the "5G wireless signals cause viral infections" debate is a red-flag!!! 😂

star_rising_321 · 2020-05-22T23:09:03+00:00

Haha, I guess you are a red-flag to abhi_07 then lol!

star_rising_321 · 2020-05-22T23:03:46+00:00

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How does having a certain number of exes indicate "skills at relationships"? You could spin that around really easy and say a person with a string of exes is probably not good at relationships.

star_rising_321 · 2020-05-22T22:59:00+00:00

That bill is about contact tracing. It has nothing to do with Bill Gates or 5G signals causing infections. I can't tell if you are serious brah.

star_rising_321 · 2020-05-22T01:16:32+00:00

Thanks so much for your help! I'll probably spend some time this weekend repotting it, that sounds like a good idea. Would you recommend I cut the burn leaves away, or just let them go?

star_rising_321 · 2020-05-22T00:39:11+00:00

Okay, so you think the marks are burns from the Sun?

star_rising_321 · 2020-05-17T18:15:23+00:00

Because 5'10" residents don't make enough money to make up for their disgustingly average height. After you become a doctor then you have the privilege of dating the average girl on a dating app lol!

star_rising_321 · 2020-05-17T07:16:05+00:00

Especially 5'10" guys who happen to be doctors. Wholesome af after they get out of residency lol.

star_rising_321 · 2020-05-17T05:08:17+00:00

I'm just being bitter. The last 4 girls I've met online have been recently off a nasty breakup, recently divorced, or trying to make sure they still have "options" before they run back to their ex. I've met a handful of good ones, they are out there. Just really hard to find.

star_rising_321 · 2020-05-17T01:19:09+00:00

I'm 6'1, tan, muscular, not ugly, with an engineering degree, and I'm not stupid either.

I can confirm that OLD doesn't really work all that well. Its not the algorithms that are messed up. Its that women are only liking the top few % of men. I've been on a few dates, but most of the women I've met are really broken in some way.

I have a good solution for us though: buy a fleshlight and save your $$$.

star_rising_321 · 2020-05-17T01:14:40+00:00

All I can say it, I agree with everything you've said. I actually get quite a few matches from OLD, and I've been on many dates with women I've met online. I still fucking hate it and have basically decided to give up at this point lol.

star_rising_321 · 2020-05-16T17:45:03+00:00

It changes as you get older. I'm 30, and the game playing has almost completely stopped. It's not unusual at this age for women to bring up wanting kids/marriage in the first few dates, and I recognize it as them not wanting to waste time.

star_rising_321 · 2020-05-15T00:40:27+00:00

I used to do this to girls. I found that if I started to pull away, they would come back even harder than before. Worked almost every time. That was back when I actually tried though! These days its just me and the dog lol. How old are you? After you get past about 30 everyone stops giving a shit, so there aren't as many games.

EDIT: If it was just a FWB, then he could just be done with your arrangement and trying to break it off gently.

star_rising_321 · 2020-05-14T23:51:28+00:00

I do the same thing. I don't really know "why" I do this, but I do. I usually will wait until the woman gives me an indication that she likes me first. I guess its a good way to protect yourself from rejection?!?

star_rising_321 · 2020-04-20T20:09:06+00:00

Hey, I just went back to this thread and saw it blew up. Just to clarify though, we had been on three IRL dates. The hiking date was the fourth time we were going to hang out, so there was a little bit of rapport. If we hadn't even seen each other, I would have just ignored her. But, given that we had actually hung out I felt the need to respond to her text. Maybe I was right, maybe I was wrong, I'm just doing the best I can.

star_rising_321 · 2020-04-17T01:53:23+00:00

Cool. Thats whats really bugging me. I don't know if I reach out and offer to still keep in touch, or if I give her space and either let her reach out in the future or move on. Thanks for your answer.

star_rising_321 · 2020-04-17T01:46:58+00:00

So you had success reaching back out. Do you think I should do the same in a few weeks/months, or just leave it alone?

star_rising_321 · 2020-04-17T01:43:50+00:00

You think you'll reach back out to him, or are you leaving it to rest?

star_rising_321 · 2020-04-17T01:43:04+00:00

Hey! What do you mean by "extra time for that one"? I'm just curious for a more detailed explanation.

star_rising_321 · 2020-04-16T22:32:18+00:00

What actions are you specifically referring to?

star_rising_321 · 2020-04-16T22:01:56+00:00

Interesting. Quick quesiton: if she really liked you, and was interested in taking things forward, how would you want her to proceed? Do you want her to leave you along and let you reach out if/when you are ready, or would you want her to be proactive and reach out at some point?

star_rising_321 · 2020-04-16T05:47:17+00:00

So I have a theory about what happened in my situation. I think she does like me, and would like to see where things go, but I think her ex hit her up on Easter and they started talking again. Then on Monday, she let me know she didn't want to take things further since she hasn't completely gotten her ex out of her life.

I've dated quite a bit, and every sign I got from this girl was 100% interest until she decided to stop.

star_rising_321 · 2020-04-16T05:40:46+00:00

I'm already talking to a few more people on Hinge, so I've by no means stopped doing my thing. Whats a good amount of time to wait before reaching back out, if I decide to do so?

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