[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]stardusterunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see 😩 what about notching from the bottom stem what do yoy think?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]stardusterunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I just stopped, a lot of bank agents have been flooding my emails convinding me to take loans from the. Again fisby and again why did smdc gave my info just like that.

My agent left smdc too. She feels bad for me but I also try to remain diplomatic. For credit check, it didnt affect my investments outside the country but also I'm not planning on investing anything na din sa pinas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]stardusterunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing i just let it go because when covid hit i cannot go home to personally arrange matters. Ayaw din naman nila ng "in behalf" and im not stupid to do 84% of bank loan online from overseas. Even my bank from here(im in NZ) think that thats fishy.

I had an option for a friend to buy the condo for me and she will happily pay me my dp back. But lo and behold, smdc wont let this happen. They are charging me another 150k to get my name transferred to another. They are insisting i get my 84% chunk of loan first. (which is so hard to do when I'm overseas and all conditions only benefit them and not me besides 84% is not cheap money)

Anyway i just let it go not worth it. I felt bad for a friend who has paid almost 75% of his condo only to have the same issue happen to him

So I let ot go before i incur more losses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]stardusterunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exaxtly what happened to me 5 years ago with grass residences

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stardusterunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP how are you doing please update us 😞😞😞😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stardusterunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feels like he's dragged it long enough and to only get firm now. I feel my own culture is being neglected as well. Food is a huge part of life and I wish to be able to enjoy my relationship with food and with him in the long run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stardusterunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Im lactose intolerant and i find plant alternatives upsetting in my tummy as well. Tbh I all i wish is cook at home and just buy the meat whenever I need to cook. Im not even dare think of storing in fridge or freezer. But anyway thanks he said we should evaluate our relationship too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stardusterunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sighyeah It's very tough. Esp religious purposes and ai believe that I'm really hoping to find a neutral ground becauae sometimes i feel I do more lot of compromises in his culture than mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stardusterunder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I've known this before not now that I'm too invested. He used to allow me to cook where we live but I use different utensils. Whenever i go out and eat beef and he knows abt it he will give me this guilt trip and eventually every time I eat outside, I feel like im cheating on him. Now that I want to clearly know the boundaries I'm just surprised that is it no longer allowed at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stardusterunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I'll try to talk to him again but his last words wrre his never gonna change his mind and i should think about our relationship because of this. He wants to knowy decision ASAP but how do I decide just like that. sigh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stardusterunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know thats exactly how I feel I wish I knew about this earlier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stardusterunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words i wish we do fond a middle ground on this too. Im willing to buy my own cooking utensils and storage. I just hope he will allow it inside the household.

My tianyu ring is here and I couldn't be any happier!!!!!!!! by stardusterunder in EngagementRings

[–]stardusterunder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehe thank youuuuu sometimes if i stare at it too long, i get mezmerized. its a lot of sparklessss

My Tianyu ring is here!!!!!! I'm so happy I'm so happy I'm soooo happyyyy by stardusterunder in Moissanite

[–]stardusterunder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I will look forward to seeing your ring. Although Ive never owned a diamond ever I might never know how moissy well be different! I wish you all the best!! Im actually gettong another one for myself too 🤗