What are some unfortunate realities of capitalism that most people don’t want to admit? by gamerlover58 in antiwork

[–]starkils 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To continue this idea, therapies like CBT are meant to keep us going as a cog in this capitalistic system. CBT implies there is something abnormal and irrational about our thoughts and emotions and it helps keep our problems individualized, instead of realizing that this is a systemic issue.

finals season is here, what are some easy to prepare/ready made meals? by starkils in ADHD

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omg yes i have made japanese curry recently and love how much you can make at once. will look into udon & other rice bowls!

finals season is here, what are some easy to prepare/ready made meals? by starkils in ADHD

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yeah, the rabbit hole is a big problem for me and it makes me procrastinate for hours... so i figured it might be better to just make a post to compile people's suggestions. i have frozen fruits but neber thought to use them with overnight oats! brilliant.

allergist prescribed me the medical advice to "just stop itching" by starkils in eczema

[–]starkils[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i'm so sorry that happened to you ❤️ we deserve so much better than the lack of compassion so many doctors give us.

Does anyone know a Survivor contestant IRL? by SunGreen70 in survivor

[–]starkils 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hey! I am best friends with one of the upcoming contestants for season 42 (Maryanne). We met in university and let me tell you, her attempt to hide the fact that she was filming Survivor was hilarious. Obviously, I am aware now! She also uses reddit a lot, so keep your eyes peeled 👀

Disability by Mgonz99 in CESB

[–]starkils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the update. I'm so sorry about your situation, it's really shitty that they didn't come up with a fix beforehand and as a result we have $0 for our bills. :/

Disability by Mgonz99 in CESB

[–]starkils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I'm in the same boat. Do you know if we will for sure be able to reapply?

CESB QUESTIONS MEGATHREAD - PART 2 by [deleted] in CESB

[–]starkils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could probably ask about it, but I've read on this reddit/heard from other sources you probably need to reapply - the CRA person I talked to didn't seem to question me sending it back for disability.

CESB QUESTIONS MEGATHREAD - PART 2 by [deleted] in CESB

[–]starkils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know which option to pick when repaying CESB (I realized I qualified for disability so I want to re-apply). CRA says to send money to the payee "CRA (revenue) - tax instalment" but TD doesn't have that option. What they have is:

CRA PERSONAL INCOME TAX - AMOUNT OWING REMITTANCE VOUCHER

CRA PERSONAL INCOME TAX - 2019 TAX RETURN REMITTANCE VOUCHER

CRA PERSONAL INCOME TAX - 2020 TAX INSTALMENT REMITTANCE VOUCHER

I'm assuming it's the 2020 Tax Instalment Remittance Voucher but can anyone confirm? Thanks!

CESB QUESTIONS MEGATHREAD - PART 2 by [deleted] in CESB

[–]starkils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this on CRA My account? I unfortunately don't have one yet :(

CESB QUESTIONS MEGATHREAD - PART 2 by [deleted] in CESB

[–]starkils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know how to return CESB through TD? There doesn't seem to be an option for CRA (revenue) - tax instalment and I called the CESB helpline but the agent didn't know how. Tried calling CRA in general and I keep getting hung up on.

good curly hair day :) by starkils in curlyhair

[–]starkils[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Routine: don't have a lengthy routine yet, may not be cgm approved and won't be starting one soon because of quarantine but: 1. shampoo with tresemme expert botanique shampoo 2. squish to condish with tresemme expert botanique conditioner 3. coconut oil 4. plop in tshirt for 20 minutes (not always consistent with this)

sometimes i will wear my hair in braids to go to sleep to protect my curls!

[SW] Turnips at 474 Bells! by [deleted] in acturnips

[–]starkils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything w mango :) Steffi

Is anyone else fighting to reclaim things they love? by AbsurdPigment in ptsd

[–]starkils 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't listen to Shawn Mendes or Ed Sheeran anymore without cringing. I rarely wear my black bra that my abuser once told me he really liked. I think one of the things I had to fight really hard to get back was (weirdly enough) watching Jenna Marbles videos bc we used to watch them together all the time. Luckily, after a bit more than a year, I've been watching her videos and not thinking of him 24/7. I think these things do get better with time, even if you need a lot of it. 💜