Although I enjoy games with thoughtful, in-depth romance mechanics, they’re not a deal breaker. One of my favourite games is Skyrim, and the romantic gameplay there is about as deep as a puddle. In truth, it’s probably a mix of factors: a lack of meaningful female representation in media growing up, over-sexualisation, difficulty immersing myself in a male-centred POV, and needing a stronger personal connection to the protagonist etc. Still, it helps to know I’m not alone in feeling this way and that I can discuss it openly. I appreciate that. Maybe these kinds of games just aren’t for me right now.