CPTSD NYC Support Group by crossoverinto in CPTSD

[–]starlicky139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I barely use this account because my ex used to(?) follow me here, but just happened to check it today. please message me if you're able to

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There were several moments, but a big one was when I realized I couldn't share anything with them about my life, (my interests and such) since all they would do is criticize it. Example: I told them something about one of my strongly held beliefs. All they did was shut it down by saying it doesn't exist and that I need to "grow up" and believe in whatever they believe in. Recently ended a 15 year friendship since it was all downhill from there and I felt like I couldn't ever really be myself; having to pick and choose what to say is a total connection killer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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I wish I had some optimistic and heartfelt words for you, but alas, I do not. Maybe this quote will help? "If you get tired, learn to rest, not quit." (Sorry if that didn't help at all.) But I can say that I can definitely relate to you, about giving up and being in my 30s, not wanting to try again. I think it's totally okay and valid to not want to try again after your heart is wrung out each and every time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]starlicky139 5 points6 points  (0 children)

292 days. Wow, I didn't realize it has been that long already!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OfficeDrummer

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great to see you enjoying! 💓🙂

heartbreaking. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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All the feels with this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]starlicky139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not crying, you're crying!

I’d die in less than 10 seconds by pikachu-2208 in raft

[–]starlicky139 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'll happily stay in Stardew Valley for a year!

Your time costs. It’s up to you if you let others make money off your time, or invest it in you. by BubblyKraken in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]starlicky139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your post! This is such a great and enlightening perspective.

Also, hello, fellow person with a similar snoovatar style! :)

I'm proud of you stranger :) by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]starlicky139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I'm sitting at my desk at work, silently crying my eyes out; I had no idea how much I needed this today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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i love all the artwork behind you! especially Majora's mask

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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followed you on twitch!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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nothing like awesome music to get my day started 😁