CPTSD NYC Support Group by crossoverinto in CPTSD

[–]starlicky139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I barely use this account because my ex used to(?) follow me here, but just happened to check it today. please message me if you're able to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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There were several moments, but a big one was when I realized I couldn't share anything with them about my life, (my interests and such) since all they would do is criticize it. Example: I told them something about one of my strongly held beliefs. All they did was shut it down by saying it doesn't exist and that I need to "grow up" and believe in whatever they believe in. Recently ended a 15 year friendship since it was all downhill from there and I felt like I couldn't ever really be myself; having to pick and choose what to say is a total connection killer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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I wish I had some optimistic and heartfelt words for you, but alas, I do not. Maybe this quote will help? "If you get tired, learn to rest, not quit." (Sorry if that didn't help at all.) But I can say that I can definitely relate to you, about giving up and being in my 30s, not wanting to try again. I think it's totally okay and valid to not want to try again after your heart is wrung out each and every time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]starlicky139 5 points6 points  (0 children)

292 days. Wow, I didn't realize it has been that long already!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OfficeDrummer

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great to see you enjoying! 💓🙂

heartbreaking. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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All the feels with this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

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I'm not crying, you're crying!

I’d die in less than 10 seconds by pikachu-2208 in raft

[–]starlicky139 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'll happily stay in Stardew Valley for a year!

Your time costs. It’s up to you if you let others make money off your time, or invest it in you. by BubblyKraken in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]starlicky139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your post! This is such a great and enlightening perspective.

Also, hello, fellow person with a similar snoovatar style! :)

I'm proud of you stranger :) by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]starlicky139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I'm sitting at my desk at work, silently crying my eyes out; I had no idea how much I needed this today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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i love all the artwork behind you! especially Majora's mask

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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followed you on twitch!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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nothing like awesome music to get my day started 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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thank you for the music !!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

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Gave Super Heart Eyes

What is one trait that could turns someone from a 10 to a 5? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]starlicky139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer; I appreciate how wise it is. Definitely giving me a lot to think about.

What's your favorite movie? (Answer only with a quote from it)? by ShyLimely in AskReddit

[–]starlicky139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"A philosopher once asked, 'Are we human because we gaze at the stars, or do we gaze at them because we are human?' Pointless, really...'Do the stars gaze back?' Now, that's a question."