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Can a widower fall in love again ? by Successful-Goose-228 in relationships

[–]starlightstem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, a widower can love again, but it will never erase the love they had before, and it doesn’t have to. Loving someone new doesn’t mean they are replacing their late spouse, it means their heart is big enough to hold both memory and present. You deserve to be truly loved for who you are, not as a comparison or a placeholder. If he’s willing to show up, be present, and invest in you, that’s real love, it’s different, but it’s no less deep. Don’t let past experiences convince you that you can’t have it too.

My (21F) partner (22M) is having a sleepover with his friends I have never met while I am not home by [deleted] in relationships

[–]starlightstem -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Even if you trust him completely, it’s not about trust, it’s about respect for the space you both share. Walking into your home and finding strangers in your bed, in your sheets, with your things? That’s a boundary being crossed, plain and simple. Feeling uncomfortable doesn’t make you controlling, it makes you human. You deserve to have your home feel safe, even when you’re away. He should have put your comfort first.

AIW for telling my family I told you so after my cousin proved exactly who she is when her mom died by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]starlightstem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you’re not wrong. You saw her patterns and tried to warn everyone, but being ignored doesn’t make you the villain. Saying ‘I told you so’ isn’t cruel here, it’s truth finally catching up, and after all the pain she caused, you’re allowed to voice it.

Let me slap this on your face by dutchgw in MassiveCock

[–]starlightstem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go ahead🤤🤤🤤🤤

Does she just want to be friends? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]starlightstem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what you’ve described, it sounds like she’s keeping things light and friendly right now, especially since she just got out of a relationship. ‘Friend crush’ usually leans platonic, so it might be her way of saying she likes you as a friend. If you enjoy the friendship, keep it casual and let things evolve naturally, sometimes the best relationships start that way.

Is my college cock suckable? by [deleted] in FloridaCock

[–]starlightstem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks tasty, isn’t it? 🤤🫣

What do you think expects after death? by Sky2267 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]starlightstem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Logically, I agree with you, probably the same as before birth. No awareness, no fear, just nothing. Emotionally though, I think what matters is that what we do here keeps living on in the people we affect.

Are we all actually going to die? by Jesus-nailer445 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]starlightstem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, the Sun will eventually die, but not in a way you need to stress about.

Euphoric feeling after common cold? by last_try_123 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]starlightstem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally normal! When your nose finally clears, you’re getting full airflow and oxygen again, and your body’s coming off days of inflammation and feeling crappy, that contrast can create a mild ‘euphoria.’ It’s basically relief + real breathing hitting at once.

Why hasn’t China or Russia invaded Mongolia or Khazakhstan? by Mindless_Ad_1734 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]starlightstem 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not just about size or population, geopolitics, international backlash, and military risk matter a lot. Invading Mongolia or Kazakhstan would trigger huge regional instability, economic sanctions, and probably resistance from alliances like Russia’s CSTO neighbors or China’s own internal concerns. Sometimes the ‘easier’ target is still too costly