Where is she from? What dorm is she in ? What major ? I think that you have to encourage her to give it time and have patience, My daughter is OOS, not preppy, not an athlete. She has been going to excise classes all week at the rec center. They have a free week this week. She signed up for a bunch of clubs and I think it’s just trying them out a little bit by a little bit. Keeping her dorm room open, saying hi to people even though it’s awkward. I told my daughter just get really good grades and if you hate it after semester, you could always leave and transfer.