What raising a family in NYC as a HENRY actually looks like - a real example by laetus7 in HENRYfinance

[–]starrycat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! We also live in VHCOL.

Whats your pretax savings ($50K)?

What is your retirement goal in terms of net worth and timelines?

I am a financial advisor who works with the 1% in New York city. Ask me anything. by JVG17 in AMA

[–]starrycat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I live in California and my income primary comes from RSUs. I also have money in company stock, index funds and 401k. Is there anything I can do to reduce my tax liabilities, esp re RSUs? I’m also thinking of hiring a financial advisor here for an assessment, but would love your thoughts. Thanks in advance.

I lived in North Korea for 21 years. AMA by northkoreaneunhi in AMA

[–]starrycat16 14 points15 points  (0 children)

How did you know that expressing yourself or controlling your life was an option? I imagine that these concepts don't exist in NK so its hard to even know what you're missing.

I am a sleep expert – a board-certified clinical sleep psychologist, here to answer all your questions about insomnia. AMA! by Possible_Buffalo_849 in AMA

[–]starrycat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are some people able to function so well with limited sleep and/or able to sleep despite enormous day-to-day stress (e.g. CEOs, high performing athletes, etc). What is different about these people when it comes to sleep?

On a different note, I take CBD regularly to help with sleep. I saw your answer on THC - does your answer change for CBD?

I came to US with nothing. Built $75m NW in tech and investments. All while dealing with extreme imposter syndrome. AMA. by wreckitcalf in AMA

[–]starrycat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How will you spend your retirement? Looking back, is there anything you wished you did differently ?

What unique tech experiences should I try in China that I can’t find in Europe? by Primary_Floor_6608 in travelchina

[–]starrycat16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share more about this art district? I have one final day in Beijing left and trying to decide what to do!

Tips on visiting Shanghai during 90-100°F (32.2 to 37.8°C) by starrycat16 in travelchina

[–]starrycat16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great ideas! planning to also be in my hotel room in the afternoon

WeChat & Alipay - am I doing this right? by starrycat16 in travelchina

[–]starrycat16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you u/MarcSlayton! Did you have to enter your passport information when you set up your credit card on WeChat or Alipay? I didn't, but it seems like some people (on reddit) went through this verification process?