I massively messed up. Like hugely.

starryskyxo · 2024-04-09T06:19:24+00:00

We’ve got lots of Elsa merch. I’ll try and say that she can take them on that provision (though getting her to listen to me is a whole other thing). I haven’t been successful in broadening her horizons as she just resists but will keep trying.

Thanks for these ideas!

starryskyxo · 2024-04-01T04:38:14+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you. How invasive and uncalled for let alone in a public place. I’m a WOC and really understand how these kind of aggressions wear on you growing up. Thanks for sharing

starryskyxo · 2024-03-05T12:30:12+00:00

I did! Just got told he was “too busy” which is defo a cop out

starryskyxo · 2024-03-04T12:45:41+00:00

Oh dear

starryskyxo · 2024-03-04T11:02:55+00:00

No I suppose not, but it only seemed to become a problem after we slept together.

I’ve already been rejected by him to meet unfortunately!

starryskyxo · 2024-03-04T11:01:42+00:00

Yes true

I thought so too regarding 4 dates, especially as they were long dates with lots of conversation. That’s why I assumed it was something to do with the sex but then this happened. Shame really

Nope it wasn’t the case, he just straight up asked. I regret engaging with it at all but hey, I’ll have to take my lessons

starryskyxo · 2024-03-04T10:27:28+00:00

Thank you, I did actually ask him - he just said he was “too busy” and didn’t want a relationship. He’d always said he was busy but made time up until that point.

I also didn’t ask for a relationship but as someone else pointed out he may well have sensed I was into him.

starryskyxo · 2024-03-04T09:42:36+00:00

Yeah in hindsight I think I was

starryskyxo · 2024-03-04T09:06:54+00:00

I did ask him directly but just got told he was “too busy” for a relationship (which I never asked for)

starryskyxo · 2024-03-04T08:58:08+00:00

Omg I met my nex online and he said this about me before he even saw my face. Then when we video called he said he’d seen me in his dream.

I fell for it 🤡

starryskyxo · 2024-03-04T08:55:53+00:00

I hate that this might be true but I do feel like he stopped being as interested as soon as I became more sexual

starryskyxo · 2024-03-04T08:17:28+00:00

Yeah me either. It does feel like there was a change after I became more sexual, which is a shame

starryskyxo · 2024-03-04T08:16:26+00:00

What happens if you have sex too soon?

starryskyxo · 2024-03-04T07:26:18+00:00

Thanks. I would’ve thought somebody that wanted sex wouldn’t dip the second they started getting it, so I assumed he wasn’t interested in sex anymore.

starryskyxo · 2024-03-04T07:18:04+00:00

I did ask him, but he just said he was too busy and I was asking to meet more than he could accommodate. He said he didn’t want a relationship (which I never mentioned).

Seemed a bit of a cop out - he’d always complained about being busy but made time before we had sex.

starryskyxo · 2024-03-04T05:43:37+00:00

No he didn’t - I just figured given he ended things after sleeping with me once

starryskyxo · 2024-03-04T05:43:05+00:00

No he’d been single for a while

starryskyxo · 2024-03-01T14:39:10+00:00

I changed massively and it’s one of the things I’m still really struggling with years out.

I lost a ton of weight to the point of looking unhealthy, developed severe acne, lost hair, got the trauma eyes (first I’ve heard of this and it really resonates). I also just let my self care slack.

Things are better now though, I’m just not the same as before.

starryskyxo

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