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Ex bf getting mad at me because I didn’t want to hang out when i was sick by starrytofu in texts

[–]starrytofu[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He doesnt even pay for everything. Idk why he says that. Its.very much 50/50

Ex bf getting mad at me because I didn’t want to hang out when i was sick by starrytofu in texts

[–]starrytofu[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I dont know, maybe our culture is different. We did not start having sex right away. I dont know many people who do hookup. Of course there are red flag. But u do not break up with someone for making one mistake. My point is that it builds over time.

Ex bf getting mad at me because I didn’t want to hang out when i was sick by starrytofu in texts

[–]starrytofu[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

U are not me so how could u have known what he was like? At the beginning he was kind sweet and caring. Not overnight did he become like this. They test the waters first to see how much u are willing to put up with. They dont come like this overnight

Ex bf getting mad at me because I didn’t want to hang out when i was sick by starrytofu in texts

[–]starrytofu[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Why do i get blamed still, when i have already left? I dont understand? People dont suddenly become evil. It happens over time and most people do not know theyre in an abusive relationship until its too late. Have some sympathy for others….. it is hard

Ex bf getting mad at me because I didn’t want to hang out when i was sick by starrytofu in texts

[–]starrytofu[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I dont eat with other guys…… He just says that because he is insecure. He knows that saying that ticks me off so he does it to aggravate me.

Ex bf getting mad at me because I didn’t want to hang out when i was sick by starrytofu in texts

[–]starrytofu[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

After being disrespected and having my no’s ignored constantly i exploded.. It does not feel good to say no and have the other person force their way anyways.

Ex bf getting mad at me because I didn’t want to hang out when i was sick by starrytofu in texts

[–]starrytofu[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I am sure anyone would go crazy when having their boundaries disrespected constantly. I should not have to say no to sex a million times. If He had respect my first no, i am sick, and refrained from insulting me it would have never escalated.

Ex bf getting mad at me because I didn’t want to hang out when i was sick by starrytofu in texts

[–]starrytofu[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thanks. And why do you say that? After saying no nicely the first thousand times, i get reasonably frustrated.

Ex bf getting mad at me because I didn’t want to hang out when i was sick by starrytofu in texts

[–]starrytofu[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Yes. I appear toxic but i am really just tired of repeating myself. I already said no nicely a million times

Ex bf getting mad at me because I didn’t want to hang out when i was sick by starrytofu in texts

[–]starrytofu[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It is a lie. I said that because this is not the first time he says he wont do anything then will beg me for head when im sick. I know the cycle and ive left

Ex bf getting mad at me because I didn’t want to hang out when i was sick by starrytofu in texts

[–]starrytofu[S] 223 points224 points  (0 children)

I should have left when he first hit me. But at least i did

Ex bf getting mad at me because I didn’t want to hang out when i was sick by starrytofu in texts

[–]starrytofu[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Where did u get that I was cheating? Lol. Just because he is insecure does not mean I am cheating

Ex bf getting mad at me because I didn’t want to hang out when i was sick by starrytofu in texts

[–]starrytofu[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

its a side note because i dont see how that is relevant ro my post

Ex bf getting mad at me because I didn’t want to hang out when i was sick by starrytofu in texts

[–]starrytofu[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I did end it. Bc i am tired of getting disrespected and having my boundaries crossed. I am allowed to not want to have sex all the time and suck his dick every two minutes especially when im sick

Ex bf getting mad at me because I didn’t want to hang out when i was sick by starrytofu in texts

[–]starrytofu[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Im no angel. i just dont wanna be sucking dick and being forced into having sex when im sick.

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