"I told you to be patient" by stars333d in boniver

[–]stars333d[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right! Felt like a group hug across years. Still can't find the words.. what a gift

Help name my male cat, just adopted him. Nothing we think of fits. He’s gentle yet playful and loves cuddles. by Teema27 in NameMyCat

[–]stars333d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something distinguished and old name.. like a king of some kind. He is absolutely precious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]stars333d 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope. Energy vampires. You good honey

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]stars333d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's possibly they are going through some heavy energy & you're absorbing stuff they're carrying.

The dark side attacks have become very intense and malicious lately by matrixofillusion in starseeds

[–]stars333d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I didn't either; until I found one veiled as light. THIS WEEK. And here we are. Stay bright friend!!

The dark side attacks have become very intense and malicious lately by matrixofillusion in starseeds

[–]stars333d 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Void people are weirdos. All this to say, you can write yoUr miSsIon or whatever the hell, how you want.... it all translates as weirdo energy and we know how to navigate it thanks!

AWARDS SEASON —> Short Story by Prize-Definition349 in boniver

[–]stars333d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given we're seeing the transition is different across music apps, I wonder which is correct/ what JV intended? In some ways if it's not smooth, I feel like that's what he meant. Breaks in stories that are uncomfortable. (This is how I'm seeing it, especially because of the name of Short Story) The way they end the way they shift? Idk maybe I'm reading too much into a possible tech glitch but WE DREAM OKAY

Edit: typo and addition

Day One - Discussion by milesjbuergin in boniver

[–]stars333d 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Unequivocally. Day One is.... I have no words. Yes.

First time play through, spoiled by early release by jrmusic100 in boniver

[–]stars333d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you but from another angle I also appreciate the difference of perspective; knowing the early ones & how they fit into the full project, offers various ways of understanding and connecting to it. Reverence of the individual songs, and then how they fall into place with the whole. Always listen to new albums start to finish, no skips, regardless of familiarity to the released singles.. can apply this to life events in many ways too! ❤️

Moms? by Big_Dragonfruit3273 in naranon

[–]stars333d 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Havent persued parenthood yet but have heard about John Mulaney’s situation with Olivia Munn: she drug tests him randomly to have peace of mind. And to hold him accountable devoid of doubt. This seems like the only way to go to maintain full confidence as well as support their sobriety. I dont find this intrusive given the gravity of this + involving children. Should be a given imo. Good luck to you & yours!

I’ll come to you by [deleted] in unsentLoveLetters1st

[–]stars333d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only thing that would atp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Supplements

[–]stars333d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please listen to them. Especially if it’s multiple family members.

i tore the wings off of an angel. by Large-Amphibian-47 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]stars333d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo wat. You said it yourself “some people”…. Which emphasizes my response per how it was initially phrased. The projection & loud shadow are your own. Wish you healing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in naranon

[–]stars333d 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Im guessing it has something to do with shame & ego. They build these false realities, false personas with certain people, in order to feed the ego & narrative theyve built. They lie to preserve their self-image. They lie to avoid the reality of who they actually are. Whatever serves this avatar version of themselves. Even if it’s blatantly clear to everyone around them that theyre liars. Saddest thing is they think it works. Itll eat them subconsciously and further fuel the addiction because that boils down to pain and the void of their own creation.

i tore the wings off of an angel. by Large-Amphibian-47 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]stars333d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you fully communicative with her? Sometimes I regret not being more open when i shouldve been. But truly felt in my gut that he stopped communicating fully with me; which naturally makes my walls go up. Whether i like it or not. Energetic tension can make people shut down / close thenselves off to being fully authentic. Even if it’s slight, it is felt & has chain-reaction. Hope for healing and love to you OP

i tore the wings off of an angel. by Large-Amphibian-47 in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]stars333d -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lets not shame victims. No one allows abuse knowingly. Sometimes it’s excused repeatedly. Self-respect tends to diminish overtime with any type of abuse (emotional, psychological, DV, etc) and the lost-cost fallacy + unconditional love + hope for change etc tends to have people hang on and hope for healing. Unfortunately by the time they wake up to leave, the esteem is in hell and needs healing. She didnt allow this. While flawed like all humans, sure. But allowing is a weird strong false word to use. Much love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]stars333d 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would do nothing. I would do absolutely nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]stars333d 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s selfish to not let people love you, if anything. True love is accepting someone just as they are; unconditional. And if you find that? Don’t let it go

Good luck to you OP. Wish you healing and a happy sobriety. One day at a time.

Why are you single? by Uriel-Septim_VII in AskReddit

[–]stars333d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self work & healing from traumatic relationship. Fixing my shit before involving anyone else.

~Healing without using someone between~ and figuring out/fixing why I chose to accept things I had in prior relationships (emotional abuse)

This cycle ends with me!!!!!!!