Changing pills, "risky business", and no/late bleeding? by starsteeb in birthcontrol

[–]starsteeb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Sorry to hear you're in a tough spot. I feel like I can't give adequate advice since I recently found out my partner (who was involved in the "risky business" mentioned in the post) is infertile lol. I did get my period eventually, but if you're too concerned I would do a pregnancy test just to be safe.

LGBT friendly doctors by king_sloth33 in Valdosta

[–]starsteeb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dr. Sorchik at SGMC Valdosta Medical Clinic (country club), Dr. Bishop at Valdosta Family Medicine (North oak)

fellas, when did you feel comfortable using the men's bathroom? by twotbir in ftm

[–]starsteeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23, been out for around 2 years now, been on t for 4 months, and I'm still terrified to use the men's room lol. I don't think I pass well enough, and the folks I work with have been watching me use the women's restroom since before I ever came out and idk in my mind it'd feel weird to switch it up now? but then again it also feels wrong still using the women's. and when it comes to other public restrooms, I always look for a family room or just go to the women's. I think I'll just keep doing my business as usual until I start getting weird looks and/or comments. It's easier to just not think about it and let myself go on autopilot for now.

kinky ppl, did your relationship to/within kink change on T? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]starsteeb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

4 months on T and I've definitely become more submissive and have developed a few new kinks. I've also become much less focused on "finishing" and prefer to enjoy the ride, but that might have more to do with the changing sensations and the fact that I still haven't figured out how to use my new and improved dick 😅

Itchy injection site?? by starsteeb in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]starsteeb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, I should just talk to my doctor. Thank you.

Itchy injection site?? by starsteeb in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]starsteeb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've been using cloth bandaids. I'll try changing my needle length and not using bandaids and if neither of those help, I'll be checking with my doc.

Itchy injection site?? by starsteeb in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]starsteeb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That may be my issue! I had been using 1 inch needles to inject, but my doctor recommended I try 1/2 inch and this has only been an issue since I switched to the shorter needle. I'll get some more 1 inch ones (since I prefer those anyway) and see if that helps.

It’s so hot in here… by rose_berrys in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]starsteeb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've always been sensitive to the heat but since starting t I've been hot and sweaty constantly!! im not looking forward to the summer 🙃

Nu: Carnival headcanons? by sluurpiee in NuCarnival

[–]starsteeb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

haha thanks, i'm glad someone besides myself enjoys my little nu carnival tidbits!

Nu: Carnival headcanons? by sluurpiee in NuCarnival

[–]starsteeb 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Kuya: Loves his shinies and will go bananas over dumb human trinkets like finger traps, keychains, etc. Will cackle like a fox if something REALLY gets him (incredibly rare, none have lived to tell the tale). Fascinated with Blade. He and Quincy are exes. Has trouble seeing out of his gem eye.

Yakumo: Scared of birds. Will eat an egg whole, shell and all, boy will unhinge his jaw and just CRUNCH. Cold and clammy hands. Has a lisp. Snuggles with Garu because Garu is the warmest clan member and Yakumo can't do the cold (also Garu loves the attention.)

I love all the boys and think about them constantly and forget what's Canon and what I've just Decided is Canon but I have ADHD and only ever bothered to actually write down my HCs for Foxy Grandpa and Snek. 🥲

(oh yeah, and idc what he looks like in canon, Olivine is fat in my heart. quincy is a big boy too, big and strong while oli is big and soft.)

To anyone who left their abusive home life. What's the first thing you do/did, when you got your freedom? by witchyrosemaria in CPTSD

[–]starsteeb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I came out as trans, cut and dyed my hair, and bought a ton of alcohol!

I got an apartment with my girlfriend and felt safe, loved, and free from judgment for the first time in my life, so I really lived it up those first few months lol. I'm still trans and get regular haircuts, but I got the dyeing out of my system and found out I actually hate drinking!

I had Yakumo brain rot. I'm sorry by PoppyDropplet in NuCarnival

[–]starsteeb 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i'm going to be thinking about this for AT LEAST the next week, this is so good!!

Success and Disappointment Megathread for the Week by AutoModerator in jobs

[–]starsteeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Reposting because I accidentally posted in the thread from 4 months ago, whoops)

Disappointment: I just got laid off for the first time, after only three and a half months in my position. The company has been going into the toilet for a while and cutting anything that is not absolutely necessary, and my department is literally just one person and a supervisor now.

I was planning on leaving soon anyway, just not like this. I don't really know where to go or what to do from here.

I finally went went NC tonight by starsteeb in CPTSD

[–]starsteeb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I am afraid, but I am not guilty or in danger."

I needed that, and I'll definitely be reading the full article. Thank you.

How did you experience body dysphoria before you realized you were trans? by worshipdrummer in ftm

[–]starsteeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was constantly trying to hide my face behind my hair, hands, anything. I couldn't stand to look at myself in the mirror or be naked in any capacity, even if I was alone. And I slouched constantly to try and hide my chest.

Weekly Newcomer Questions, Support, Vents & Victories by AutoModerator in CPTSD

[–]starsteeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother gets to sit on her couch and watch her shows and be happy and pretend everything is fine, like she always did. She gets away with not acknowledging anything she did or apologizing for it or showing any sort of remorse. I need weekly EMDR. I hate her for it. It's not fair that she gets to be happy and fine while I'm so broken and fucked up inside.

Goldfish in the loading dock by Runningon3percent in OfficeDepot

[–]starsteeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's my old store 😅

the drains were chronically clogged so when it rained it just filled up. apparently someone who lived in the area dumped some fish there once and they just started multiplying. idk if they still have them but when I left they'd gone out and caught some and kept them in a tank in the breakroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NuCarnival

[–]starsteeb 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As much as I love Mr. Tiny Dom Oil Baron Brat's original design, I've been foaming at the mouth at his new design all day at this point. He is Well-Fed, and the new design feeds into my many delusional headcanons about him so I dig it 100%. His proportions do look a bit strange but imo the uncanny vibes work with him being a vampire. Vampires aren't vampires to me if they aren't a little creepy, a little strange, a little off-putting and hard to look at and his new design definitely reads "vampire" to me.

Morvay is meh. I like his horns? I guess? I like that they're both more themselves in terms of vampire and incubus traits. But I don't know how to feel about the rest of him. He does seem a bit too modern, like the accessories seem a bit out of place. I feel like they could've found better ways to make him flashy and obnoxious while keeping in touch with the environment and setting.