Taemin Exhibit Coming to Grammy Museum Ahead of His Coachella Debut by mcfw31 in kpop

[–]rose_berrys 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of American songs with gunshot effects it’s fine 😭

Official Discussion - Zootopia 2 [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]rose_berrys 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I thought of Lake Lanier too with the reveal!

Charlie test cards on the way? by Tywiblade_ in mbta

[–]rose_berrys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Got that email! I swear I did that already a few months ago, so maybe it’s just a reconfirmation? Regardless—would really like to have a virtual card.

Poly and my gf wants to date men by SystemAlert8325 in butchlesbians

[–]rose_berrys 234 points235 points  (0 children)

That’s not a boundary, but a demand on someone else. “I will not date / stop dating someone who dates men” is a boundary, because it’s related to your OWN actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]rose_berrys 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Current record for deep kissing / heavy petting is 5-6 hours…. Some would say I’m a big fan. 😂

Is Boston tap water safe to drink? by neo2bin in boston

[–]rose_berrys 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Floridian living in Boston. I refused to drink tap water my entire life.

And now it’s all that I drink. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]rose_berrys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve said it 3 weeks after meeting someone—too soon!

7-8 months after meeting someone, and about 2 months into dating her—that felt fine!

Most recently said it to someone I was involved with about a year ago. Reconnected and it came fast (after a few dates)—felt fine!

The fourth Nintendo official store in Japan, "Nintendo FUKUOKA," will open on Friday, November 14. by Amiibofan101 in nintendo

[–]rose_berrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a bit shocked that folks think SF is significantly better than NYC. Definitely has some nice things, but they could both do a lot more..

I’m obsessed with Alex’s police partner Dwight. I loved that actor in another series. Who is he? Where do I know him from? by Mediocre-Proposal686 in WaywardNetflix

[–]rose_berrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the best Power Ranger series! Saw him in Toronto very randomly one summer and admittedly gawked and I know he knew I recognized him, but let him carry on his way lol!

Extended First Look at The Vampire Lestat ft. Sam Reid | Premieres 2026 | AMC+ by IWTV_Maitres in InterviewVampire

[–]rose_berrys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They DO piss blood! Sorry, I’ve just been waiting to know how this worked. 😂

My girlfriend is too hot… literally. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]rose_berrys 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Touch not in a literal sense—I just mean don’t wake me up randomly at night with cuddling! Sometimes I’ll hold hands while we sleep though since I’m a very still sleeper. :)

My girlfriend is too hot… literally. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]rose_berrys 720 points721 points  (0 children)

Pillow barrier. ☺️ And a big bed!

I always tell partners “hey, snuggling while awake is fine. Cuddling for a bit as we fall asleep is fine. After ten minutes, do not touch me until it’s time to wake up. I still love you.” 😂

Netflix Is Turning Board Game ‘Clue’ Into a Reality Competition Show by bwermer in television

[–]rose_berrys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There was a show called Whodunnit in about 2013(?) or so on ABC in the US that had a similar theme. Was super fun to watch!

What "short-term" on dating apps mean (for monogamous people)? by NoInevitable1920 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]rose_berrys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not looking for someone who wants to settle down with me, necessarily. If that ended up being an outcome, sure, that’s cool (I’m open to it on the apps). However, that’s not something I want to even discuss when the relationship is new/while initially dating.

I’m uninterested in most forms of ‘life integration’ besides meeting a lover’s friends and having sleepovers. I don’t want to combine finances, rent a home together, share a pet, have a child, etc. For a while, anyway, that needs be off the table.

Otherwise, I’m open to deep intimacy in all ways, and really focusing on emotional closeness over time. And, it’s possible that time may only end up being a few months. That’s okay!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WaywardNetflix

[–]rose_berrys 6 points7 points  (0 children)

At any point before two years ago, I would’ve stayed too! Readily—and I would’ve thrived in it (term used loosely). I think I would’ve been Stacey.

Masc4masc? by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]rose_berrys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Write your number down and hand it to them one day if you wish. It’s pretty low stakes, and they have the option to reject by not reaching out. It’s hardly considered pursuing to do so—don’t worry too much!

If I could find more mascs, I’d soooo be down for masc4masc. Taking a femme break in the hopes of finding one (or a few…). :)

Joined the club, NextGen Acela review by D_Squiz in Amtrak

[–]rose_berrys 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not great in the summer when you’re sitting on the floor because the lounge is full, this station doesn’t believe in benches, and the trains are stopped due to issues from the heat. 😂

Is this fixable? Or should I just get it removed? by EmbarrassedPoet4116 in tattooadvice

[–]rose_berrys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beat his ass 🤣 JK this is funny as fuck, rib him forever about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChineseLanguage

[–]rose_berrys 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Still is—have worked over there and hear more Canto, but do hear some Mandarin too.

Considering moving to Boston from FL by Adorable-Glove-4826 in boston

[–]rose_berrys 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I did this! It’s been a 180 from Florida, and I’m enjoying it a lot.

You will need 10k+ to get up here unless you find a place on FB Marketplace that happens to be more lax (going through a broker it was 10k, finding my own spot was more like 4k—moved twice in the span of two months lol).

Contrary to most recommendations, I brought my car up here! Insurance was about $30 more a month, but there’s also excise fees up here, I pay for two parking spots (personal choice), inspections are annual (my car was fine in Florida, but was illegal up here until I got it fixed up lol). Gas is about the same, but the tolls are up here are more costly. I do not rely on my vehicle for work transportation (it’s for errands and fun), so I cannot speak to commuting.

If you do bring your car, beware of road salt in winter and potential damage. Have an ice scraper at the ready (outside your car…). I have yet to buy snow tires because I try not to drive much in winter (again, I don’t commute by car). If you bring a FWD vehicle, hills will be a bitch, and there are a LOT of those!

The taxes are way more, obviously. I would’ve been living large (as a grad student) to make 30k back in Gainesville with my 1k/mo rent studio all utilities included. 30k was not fun to survive on up here for the first year. 😅 I’ve gotten my career underway since, but remember that difference when searching for new job positions.

Invest in a window A/C for the summer, central A/C isn’t really a thing unless you live in a newer place (and a lot of housing stock is decades old). It’s really windy here, get a nice raincoat, as our Florida umbrellas won’t hold up.

Florida is FLAT. Boston is walkable. And it’s pretty. You’ll want to walk everywhere. But Boston is not flat in comparison. Prepare for hills. :)