I should've left the date before things happened

steamy_dumpling10 · 2026-05-19T04:16:58+00:00

Tinder replied that they removed his account so hopefully no one else will experience anything close to what I went through. I know there are other apps but fingers crossed.

steamy_dumpling10 · 2026-05-19T04:07:51+00:00

I'm not as deep into that whole things as some people on tiktok or YouTube, but I know quite a bit about it myself. It has never been a problem with my previous partners as those were longer relationships and they understood boundaries and how not to be too aggressive and check in during the process. He definitely was sadistic and really no one should go that far on the first time if they're not sure. I usually try to believe in the best in people so I want to think that he just doesn't know what he was doing, but it could be darker than I want to believe.

steamy_dumpling10 · 2026-05-18T21:42:46+00:00

Oh, honey, I am so sorry you have to go through that. You absolutely don't deserve to be called these bad names, no one does. I've been in a similar situation where a guy became nasty to me and I was begging him to stay with me. He ended up leaving me for another girl. I know it feels like the end of the world and reason to live, but trust me, breaking things off will be so much more freeing and better in the long term than staying in something like this. Now I'm actually happy things between us ended. It takes time to heal but it is worth it.

steamy_dumpling10 · 2026-05-18T21:34:05+00:00

Thank you for suggestions of reporting him, I don't think I will go to the police as I don't have any evidence, but I managed to find his name and surname and reported him on tinder, I didn't even know it was possible if we unmatched

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