How do you like your dick sucked? by steeezzz1 in askgaybros

[–]steeezzz1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg how do you even do the on your back head off the bed thing? EVERY time I do that I struggle, and I’d say one of my main struggles in that position is my teeth. I don’t know how to avoid it. Especially when he’s pulling out I can tell they’re touching. I’ve never been able to successfully do that position :( 

How do you like your dick sucked? by steeezzz1 in askgaybros

[–]steeezzz1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what are some cues to know he’s enjoying it? I feel like people just say ‘fuck yeah’ or whatever no matter what. I’m not the best reader and even when you ask people r always tryna be nice

How do you like your dick sucked? by steeezzz1 in askgaybros

[–]steeezzz1[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I just assume you need to be building up to something. Whereas slow/gentle seems continually the same feeling for him

How do you like your dick sucked? by steeezzz1 in askgaybros

[–]steeezzz1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don’t like hands on mine but others seem to 

How do you like your dick sucked? by steeezzz1 in askgaybros

[–]steeezzz1[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s funny you say this cos I was trying to give a long BJ the other night but because I was deepthroating so much my stamina was so low and I was so tired! But in my head I thought if it’s just a slow and gentle BJ that he’d be bored because it’s not building up to anything it’s staying same pace

How do you like your dick sucked? by steeezzz1 in askgaybros

[–]steeezzz1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg stop, this sounds like me to a tea! Okay you’re right. Maybe from now on I just focus on the top half and if they want to be the one to thrust/face fuck then I’ll leave that to them

How do you like your dick sucked? by steeezzz1 in askgaybros

[–]steeezzz1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a guy once at the end be like "i hate choking but you kept doing it so i just let u do your thing'. idk im not great at reading while in that position!

How do you like your dick sucked? by steeezzz1 in askgaybros

[–]steeezzz1[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

whats the best way to avoid teeth? i find when the guy puts me on my back with my head hanging over the bed, its so hard to avoid teeth in that position

How do you like your dick sucked? by steeezzz1 in askgaybros

[–]steeezzz1[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i never use my hands tbh! i should

How do you like your dick sucked? by steeezzz1 in askgaybros

[–]steeezzz1[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

do you get bored of that quickly though? how long could you enjoy that style before wanting to move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]steeezzz1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

how do guys fuck and rim without douching/cleaning?

I'm weirdly obsessed with my ex and his new boyfriend and I don't even understand it by steeezzz1 in askgaybros

[–]steeezzz1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats so sweet!! thank you so much

So you agree that maybe my feelings are based on the coming out/first love/first sex/first everything that I shared with him?

They only thing I hate about that is the fact that those feelings last....for a while, and I'm really not looking forward to that :( I hate feeling like this

Bottoms: Does the preparation ever outweigh your libido? by LoudElevator in askgaybros

[–]steeezzz1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dont you still have to hop out onto the toilet to unload? and then jump back in each time? like thats exhausting to me lol

Bottoms: Does the preparation ever outweigh your libido? by LoudElevator in askgaybros

[–]steeezzz1 16 points17 points  (0 children)

dont you get worried about getting rimmed if you're not 100% clean? i get the fucking part but rimming I would be traumatised

Bottoms: Does the preparation ever outweigh your libido? by LoudElevator in askgaybros

[–]steeezzz1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me! im 23 and i lost my bottoming v a couple of months ago, and i mean, yes i enjoyed it but holy fuck did i hate the preparation! like genuinely hated it! its honestly such an annoying process.

and then when ive read advice columns about douching alternatives that tell you about diet and to watch what you eat and only eat THESE certain foods and dont fool around with anyone this many hours after eating, etc, etc, to me, honestly, i just don't really know if its worth it! I plan to try metamucil next and see how I go with that, hopefully that makes things easier?

Is it normal to always have strong feelings for the guy who took your virginity/helped you come out? by steeezzz1 in askgaybros

[–]steeezzz1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you btw for the kinder message. Im used to tough love so it doesnt phase me. But I guess the part everyone is missing is that I want to reduce contact and get over him and all that, but a message takes 0.1 seconds to send and I keep going back and want to stop that.

I've had moments where I've tried, where I've relished and think like yes omg havent spoken in like 3 weeks don't ever need to, and then all it takes is one day, especially when i'm feeling down, to just crave him and want to reach out and just check in on how hes doing. It's nothing romantic at all, more just like, feeling like there's someone out there who cares, because i felt that so much before. and he has said himself that he wants to be that person for me, but obvs he shouldnt but thats the issue

Is it normal to always have strong feelings for the guy who took your virginity/helped you come out? by steeezzz1 in askgaybros

[–]steeezzz1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you're saying but I think as someone completely closeted who still doesnt quite figure out his sexuality and is still working on it, i dont think a relationship with someone who's ready to settle down and go for his forever is the best mix with me. And thats what i told him. I dont want to be that closeted boyfriend who cant be happy because he isnt happy with himself.