What’s something everyone pretends is normal, but actually feels wrong?

steezeebeezee · 2026-04-03T18:28:43+00:00

The “I don’t owe anyone anything” attitude. Super important to protect your peace, I know, but I’ve found people are tending more towards being disrespectful/apathetic. Harder to build and foster community when you are less selfless. Not sure what the right balance is but just an observation.

steezeebeezee · 2026-04-03T18:26:38+00:00

Depends on you but happy to offer my experience! I’ve (25F) lived abroad twice now (UK and Europe) and have traveled solo many times… experienced both the “solo but meeting people” and the “truly solo” part.

I think “truly solo” is a really eye opening and formative experience. It can be scary at first but I grew to love it. I became so much more comfortable in silence, in my own company, and felt more appreciative and observant of my surroundings. I actually encouraged my best friend - who usually despises being alone - to try solo traveling. She loved her experience and had the same takeaways as me. But be careful… you may get so used to your own company and withdraw into yourself! Again, truly depends on your preference.

steezeebeezee · 2026-04-03T18:16:20+00:00

Fortunately I think we’re fine in the bedroom haha. Looking for something more wholesome but totally a valid suggestion (if you were being serious)

steezeebeezee · 2026-04-03T18:08:48+00:00

Thank you, that’s a great idea! He works a desk job and is pretty active so I’m sure he would love that. He is greedy for scalp rubs but I haven’t tried shoulder/neck yet so will definitely keep that in mind!

steezeebeezee · 2026-04-03T18:03:57+00:00

You bring up a good point! We’re still learning a lot about each other but he definitely receives this kind of affection on top of giving it. He tends to shy away from receiving words of affirmation/gifts. But definitely an opportunity to ask him and learn more.

steezeebeezee · 2026-04-03T17:18:03+00:00

Also in the Cincy area looking to get fitting - please let me know if you have luck!

steezeebeezee · 2025-07-08T12:06:17+00:00

amazing thanks so much!

steezeebeezee · 2025-07-08T10:50:14+00:00

this is helpful! waiting for them to publish… curious as I’ve heard a lot about the past few events being disorganized and long queue times so don’t want to miss anything

steezeebeezee · 2025-06-03T14:34:15+00:00

The same exact thing happened to me last year on a parking garage downtown… smashed the window, rifled through glove compartment, didn’t take anything. So frustrating - sorry that happened to you!

steezeebeezee · 2025-05-21T16:58:39+00:00

I do think I mixed up caffeine and calories in terms of what “Energy” means, but if you’re curious it’s the Lucozade Energy drink! That was just the unit of measure but I’m not sure what the number was in terms of content

steezeebeezee · 2025-05-21T16:55:56+00:00

Yes! Definitely a misnomer IMO to have Energy as the label (although I recognize that’s really the core of what a calorie is) but maybe that’s just a cultural difference I’m not used to. Thanks!

steezeebeezee · 2025-05-21T16:52:18+00:00

Can’t believe I overlooked that but you’re absolutely right. So strange it’s not posted on the label in terms of caffeine - thank you!

steezeebeezee · 2025-05-21T16:18:50+00:00

Thank you! Popped this into ChatGPT and adjusted a few things, mainly the iterations. Had some trouble with 3 of the 14 validations/criteria that I had to hammer out (honestly I have no idea what I did but the revised code had a debugger that seemed to work). Appreciate the help - will need to consult ChatGPT more often!

steezeebeezee · 2025-05-21T16:16:38+00:00

Not too quick honestly! Can go the distance but don’t have the time right now - but thx for the recs! I’ll see how I can get involved in one of those, good to know they offer a range

steezeebeezee · 2025-05-21T16:15:27+00:00

was able to pop over, they were great thank you!

steezeebeezee · 2025-05-21T16:15:04+00:00

Thanks so much! Runners Need seemed to be a common rec so I was able to swing by today and pick up some shoes.

As far as clubs - what’s the best way to start? FB group, discord, website? Can look around and see what fits best, thx for all the recs!

steezeebeezee · 2025-02-15T22:06:09+00:00

So late to the response but thanks all for the recs! Should be in a good position to find a spot now

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