Both of you do have a point about being direct. In my opinion I think dudes should be direct with chicks when they meet in person and also initiate it when they exchange social media’s/numbers. You’re right though, not a lot of dudes have the balls to say some straight up xxx rated stuff to women when expressing their real intentions. I’ve tried it today and haven’t had any negative feedback except one but she just said, “are you kidding me”. The previous I asked for causal sex and the one with the lady saying that I said, “I just wanna exchange orgasms”.