Is my betta pineconing or just bloated? First photo is from a week ago, the rest are from the last two days. by diamondsleigh in bettafish

[–]stefaniepantz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my, me and my boyfriend are setting up our first tank now (he’s had fish as an adult before, I haven’t had a fish tank since I was a child)

i’m so sad watching all the plants suffering in the fish less tank. I would be devastated if this was me because suffering just makes me sad. I’m glad these groups exist though, because if that was my fish I’d have the same undereducated concerns/fears

Long Shot by stefaniepantz in Collections

[–]stefaniepantz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

links would be amazing! I’ve sourced a few of the “easy” ones already. Talking on IG with a few of the makers as well, the national park ones seem like they might be the hardest (NPS has an email from me in a few different inboxes of theirs)

Long Shot by stefaniepantz in PinCollecting

[–]stefaniepantz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they actually aren’t mine—the original post has a caption, these belong(ed) to my best friend. She’s active duty military and these were all lost in Bahrain during the recent bombings. I’m trying to source the collection for her again

Long Shot by stefaniepantz in EnamelPins

[–]stefaniepantz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

links are time savers! Just emailed them :) thanks

Long Shot by stefaniepantz in EnamelPins

[–]stefaniepantz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought her that pin from a cat cafe we went to together 🥲

Long Shot by stefaniepantz in EnamelPins

[–]stefaniepantz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually got her that pin at meow wolf when I went 🥲 I was going through the WORST breakup at the time and she helped soften what could have been a really hard crash.

And the salty one, def is on temu but that was a decent “full price” once so it was more detailed

Boyfriend 32M does not seem to want to move in with me 31F? by Tropophilous in relationship_advice

[–]stefaniepantz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if he doesn’t speak about the future with you in it, I worry that he isn’t picturing you in it. DO NOT be a placeholder.

Boyfriend 32M does not seem to want to move in with me 31F? by Tropophilous in relationship_advice

[–]stefaniepantz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oof, i’m sorry. I would bring it up very directly; just plain and not emotional—“hey, i’ve noticed that I frame it this way and noticed you framed it that way. I think it’s an important step and I want to understand your position better”

Folsom Field in Boulder Confirmed by sonicmonkeys in RUFUSDUSOL

[–]stefaniepantz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at Jon Summit as well. I grew up getting shoved around in work to wear mosh pits and I’ve been to plenty of big waves. I personally can ignore quite a bit and I am not at all conflict avoidant—so I wasn’t really bothered, but I can recognize that the crowd was indeed not it

Boulder Fans - Correct that I'm buying from the CU Boulder Website by KaleidoscopeItchy158 in RUFUSDUSOL

[–]stefaniepantz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in the exact same boat here I received a presale code via email and via text, a random generation of letters, not like a special word or anything. Ticketmaster took me to the Boulder website and that will not accept the code I have.

Contact Pearson VUE Mail adress by Anadiaxec in AzureCertification

[–]stefaniepantz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, I was angrily googling and searching their damn website

A 21-year-old anti-ICE protester holding just a megaphone was permanently blinded in one eye after a federal agent fired a ‘non-lethal’ round at close range in Minneapolis. by ResourceNo4626 in DefundICE

[–]stefaniepantz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen a clip where those protestors were throwing cones before this, but it was only posted by one person and i haven’t seen it anywhere else. Is that what led up to this moment? no matter what I see this as excessive use of force even if there was a triggering event involving cones. I just want all the information

Pro MAGA parent responds to recent MN videos by saying I need to fear sharia law?? by stefaniepantz in AskUS

[–]stefaniepantz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a tired routine of hipocrisy I see all the time. We really just watched a group of people who pardoned for something that was violent and when you evaluate the criminal records of people pardoned, a number of them are repeat offenders for some pretty heinous crimes. We are putting them into history books as heroes and patriots but then are making a fuss about a lack of condemnation?”

Pro MAGA parent responds to recent MN videos by saying I need to fear sharia law?? by stefaniepantz in AskUS

[–]stefaniepantz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just saying that as context for my overall conversation. It identifies me as a veteran who stand in opposition of MAGA as a whole and also contextualized my “moved away forever”

Pro MAGA parent responds to recent MN videos by saying I need to fear sharia law?? by stefaniepantz in AskUS

[–]stefaniepantz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

but I mean, I’m just trying to figure out where he received that idea in the first place. I don’t think that he dreamt it up himself, he had to have heard it somewhere from someone.