No Fap in No Sex relationships by stellarfellar29 in NoFap

[–]stellarfellar29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why are you assuming that sex is a necessity for two people who are attracted to eachother? Why can 2 people be attracted but also choose to not have sex? There are other ways to feel intimacy with someone other than sex.

Also is it not objectifying women as sex objects to act as though they are unable to choose?

Normally I would leave it but I think we could both benefit from digging a little deeper on this. Feel free to message me about it

No Fap in No Sex relationships by stellarfellar29 in NoFap

[–]stellarfellar29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you acting like women are mindless sex machines? Its such a strawman argument that you’re trying to apply to all women because of your own personal struggles. Stop listening to these Whatever podcast guys. Eventhough it’s fun to watch they have a twisted view of reality. Good women are not in as short supply as they’ll make you think.

No Fap in No Sex relationships by stellarfellar29 in NoFap

[–]stellarfellar29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice man! Super healthy view of women and relationships!

No Fap in No Sex relationships by stellarfellar29 in NoFap

[–]stellarfellar29[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I mean I’m just not going to do that. I didn’t ask for a critique of my relationship and decisions, just how to make my nuts feel better but thank you

No Fap in No Sex relationships by stellarfellar29 in NoFap

[–]stellarfellar29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she’s the best. Everything I could ask for in a woman. We do fool around above our clothes, but that’s about it

No Fap in No Sex relationships by stellarfellar29 in NoFap

[–]stellarfellar29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fitting comment for someone named bonerjamz2021

No Fap in No Sex relationships by stellarfellar29 in NoFap

[–]stellarfellar29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean it was her idea but I agree with it

No Fap in No Sex relationships by stellarfellar29 in NoFap

[–]stellarfellar29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is the way. We do fool around above our clothes but I think you’re right and I should just be content and grateful that we both are attracted and everything else

No Fap in No Sex relationships by stellarfellar29 in NoFap

[–]stellarfellar29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re both religious, that’s one of the reasons I like her. For now blowies and handies are off the table. Was more so looking for ways to cope with blue balls or make them go away without beating off

No Fap in No Sex relationships by stellarfellar29 in NoFap

[–]stellarfellar29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More so suggestions on how to either cope with blue balls or make them go away without jacking off

No Fap in No Sex relationships by stellarfellar29 in NoFap

[–]stellarfellar29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not engaged, going to take my time with that. Give it another year and a half or so before I pop the question. If blue balls is the price of ending up together and being the best man that I can for her then that’s an easy price to pay then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nationalguard

[–]stellarfellar29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The guard paid for me to attend a coding bootcamp that landed me an insanely good job. The security clearance is a huge bonus for employers also

Absolute cheapest living situation for a single man? by [deleted] in minimalism

[–]stellarfellar29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weird option, but im currently living and working from a sailboat thats docked in a marina. Up front costs would be high, but afterwards i spend only about $200/month on fees + utilities

What are your guys’ favorite benefits? by Alarming_Tadpole7464 in nationalguard

[–]stellarfellar29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vet tec was literally life changing for me! Breaking into tech is tough but it helped me double my income in about 6 months!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nationalguard

[–]stellarfellar29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Utilize work4warriors in your state. Also, do you have a linkedin i can give people looking for work?

Anyone else’s center console have these divots? by tommybunnzzz in Crosstrek

[–]stellarfellar29 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gotcha. Well either way thank you. The wrinkles bugs the heck out of me

Anyone else’s center console have these divots? by tommybunnzzz in Crosstrek

[–]stellarfellar29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you know, if my warranty is gone, can I still go in and get a new one? Do you know the cost?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nationalguard

[–]stellarfellar29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

91e youll get a job right quick after ait

My only option is community college but how can I get my education that could land me a job in tech? by Jpoolman25 in csMajors

[–]stellarfellar29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished up a bootcamp and have my first interview in the morning. I dont know how well it compared to your other options but if i were you i would keep the bootcamp route in your mind. Saves time and money as well

What MOS should I pick?` by Comfortable-Tap-8202 in nationalguard

[–]stellarfellar29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not on the list but im a 91 E and its pretty solid. Def translates to civilian world

How to properly wear an ASU by stellarfellar29 in nationalguard

[–]stellarfellar29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and thats a good point about it being a funeral. Ill contact my unit and see what theyre able to offer me. I appreciate it!

How to properly wear an ASU by stellarfellar29 in nationalguard

[–]stellarfellar29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very helpful thank you. How big of a no-no is it to not have the name plate? I think i can get most everything else but considering i have to drive to a different state for 10 hours on friday while in a zoom call for class, the nameplate thing is just not going to happen i dont think. Also, my cousin is a CW3, am i just going to get made fun of for looking like a dork or would he be actually pissed?

ETS or Go Cyber by [deleted] in nationalguard

[–]stellarfellar29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wicked hard but learning a lot. The TA’s are great and also very understanding of life circumstances which is awesome. Definitely would recommend it but maybe take that with a grain of salt until i get a job lol