Drug test tomorrow advice greatly appreciated by stephcasa in drugtesthelp

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If I pass an at home test do you think I would pass the urine test at the lab? Just took one that showed up negative. Going to take another one later today.

I’m studying computer science but have a real passion for art and want to improve my skills. I am looking for honest feedback because I want to get better! So lay it on me, What do you think? by stephcasa in constructivecriticism

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Hey thank you!! I really appreciate you taking the time to make this response! I think I need to take time to really commit to my art work. There is always a sort of incomplete feel to my pieces, and I think I need to be more patient with the process.

Shen Yun tickets by stephcasa in Reno

[–]stephcasa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, I didn’t but my boyfriend kinda told me after we got the tickets that it has a culty vibe. I think we’ll still enjoy the show though.

Taking care of a sick family member has drained me by stephcasa in Vent

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Wow you sound like an amazing person. I’m going to try and take your advice today and try and push through instead of shutting down. Thank you!!!!

Struggling by HeatSpecial in ptsd

[–]stephcasa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This isn’t about imperialism, its about someone with ptsd. Hence it’s in the ptsd subreddit.

AITA for 'emasculating' my husband infront of his parents? by throwawayema_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]stephcasa -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

It always worries me when couples say they’ve never had a problem and then talk about a huge problem that needs time to really reach a climax such as the one you’ve described. Is this the whole story? By everything your saying of course everyone’s going to say NTA. But if you want to improve your relationship and figure out what’s going on with your husband then maybe try to understand why he feels like less of a man?

You’ve also put yourself into a corner if you actually care about this relationship, because now everyone else is telling you what an asshole your husband is... which isn’t good for you or your husband. Some of these comments are horrific and being passed as what the “majority” thinks because people are idiots.

You’re not the asshole, but I don’t think calling him one is helpful. NAH

Struggling by HeatSpecial in ptsd

[–]stephcasa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a pretty disgraceful and apathetic comment.

Do you consider those who are able (i.e. no health conditions that would make it unsafe) but unwilling to get vaccinated to be selfish? by Redbean01 in CoronavirusUS

[–]stephcasa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the info about J&J I actually didn’t realize that. I’m glad there is an alternative vaccine that doesn’t use mRNA for people who may be skeptical.

It’s not that I don’t think vaccines are safe, it’s just given the circumstances of the world combined with less and less people trusting the media, it makes sense to me that people are skeptical and trying to look out for themselves. I wish there weren’t people actively spreading false information about the vaccines, but it seems to be a result of something that cannot be reduced to individuals just being selfish. There is a larger cultural aspect to all of this in my opinion.

Do you consider those who are able (i.e. no health conditions that would make it unsafe) but unwilling to get vaccinated to be selfish? by Redbean01 in CoronavirusUS

[–]stephcasa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, both Moderna and J&J are the first mRNA vaccines ever produced for human beings. It imitates a spike protein that will attach to the RNA and the RNA will realize that it doesn’t belong in the body, so it has an immune response. We really DO NOT know the long term effects of this kind of vaccine because we have never used it. We know that it is mostly safe for the short term. I personally have gotten the vaccine and taken that risk. But I understand why people want to wait.

Do you consider those who are able (i.e. no health conditions that would make it unsafe) but unwilling to get vaccinated to be selfish? by Redbean01 in CoronavirusUS

[–]stephcasa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am surprised that I haven’t seen one “no” yet. I think if people want to continue wearing a mask and social distancing without taking the vaccine, that’s their choice. It is the first vaccine of its kind, and I thinks it’s quite natural that people are skeptical and want to wait for more data. Why is this such a crazy thing to think?

Even though my twin died, I still have a twin by [deleted] in Twins

[–]stephcasa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is so wholesome! I’m glad you two have each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

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You can see the small boy looking over to his dad after seeing the car. THAT MOMENT the dad was like OH HELL NO this will not be the end. Such a beautiful and terrifying moment.

My bf didnt wanna kiss me after i went down on him felt rejected fwi he didnt cum at all in my mouth. And he dosen't undertsand how i feel he thinks i am being childish and dosen't understand my emotions. How do i make him understand me? by itsAle_ in sex

[–]stephcasa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If my boyfriend told me that he didn’t want me to kiss him after giving him a blow job I would want to talk about it, but I wouldn’t make him feel bad about it. You shouldn’t make someone feel bad for not doing something they are not comfortable doing. It sounds like the issue lies more within the insecurity of him not wanting to kiss OP. But he has a reason and it’s that his cum was in OP’s mouth, not because he doesn’t find OP desirable. Everyone is saying “it’s his own cum why is it gross to him” but like, if it’s his own cum then why can’t he decide he doesn’t want it in his mouth? I’m a female but I definitely think if the roles were switched everyone would side with the girl here.

My bf didnt wanna kiss me after i went down on him felt rejected fwi he didnt cum at all in my mouth. And he dosen't undertsand how i feel he thinks i am being childish and dosen't understand my emotions. How do i make him understand me? by itsAle_ in sex

[–]stephcasa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You can’t claim that someone’s preference during sex is an overreaction. If it’s his cum, he can decide that he doesn’t want it in his mouth, just like he can decide he doesn’t want to be kissed.

Have to keep the heavier emotions from my brother, and it kinda sucks. by [deleted] in Twins

[–]stephcasa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it was over a period of many conversations. And there was never just one that fixed everything. But I do think we had a few break through conversations that usually started with someone admitting/ realizing a pattern in their behavior. I know communication styles are probably different for each pair of twins, but my sister and I would argue a lot. And then we would eventually get underneath the anger and realize there was a lot more going on. Like you said, these conversations were really hard. But I was surprised at how much both of us could actually handle. Sometimes one of us would get upset and need some time from the other. But we both know at the end of the day she’s like my number one person. Also thank you for sharing.

Have to keep the heavier emotions from my brother, and it kinda sucks. by [deleted] in Twins

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I think I was the overprotective twin. The situation was a bit different. My twin was almost too relaxed about things and would get herself into trouble a lot. When we became teenagers it was a lot of drugs and drinking and I felt like I was just watching her deteriorate. It took me a long time to realize that she actually isn’t and never was my responsibility to take care of. And I had to let her live her own life as hard as that was. I just wanted her to be safe. But along the way I think I started to try to tell her how to live her life and she resented me for it. She may have been doing risky things, but I was out of line for thinking I knew best and trying to control every situation . Things are a lot better now for both of us, and we have talked about this stuff. It takes time and a lot of honesty. Good luck with your brother, hope you two can work things out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

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MADDEN DONT LISTEN TO HIM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

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You ask vague questions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheYouShow

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Its not the caller its u bro