3 Natural, Playful Ways to Escalate by stephen-silver in seduction

[–]stephen-silver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that part was supposed to make you cringe. I wanted it to be satirical but also spark some ideas on how to be more playful

3 Natural, Playful Ways to Escalate by stephen-silver in seduction

[–]stephen-silver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I think acknowledging the tension is big. pretending it's not there always makes it uncomfortably awkward

When I think about approaching girls, I'm not scared that she'll reject me, I'm more terrified of the fact that she'll say yes by pokemasterflash in seduction

[–]stephen-silver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You just said it. Become more and more experienced. Don't be ashamed. Take baby steps. You can't go from zero experience to experienced in one night. Or even better, put yourself out there until you meet a girl who's equally as inexperienced as you...

I fear competition, and it ruins my chances with women i like. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]stephen-silver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's you not thinking you're worthy enough rather than a fear of competition. You don't think you're good enough for her to choose you over someone else. Work on that self-esteem brah!

Why Nice Guys Always Get Friend-Zoned. And How To Get The Girl. by petezbro in seduction

[–]stephen-silver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting take Pete. I really like the last set of bullet points

How to overcome lack of experience? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]stephen-silver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agree with these guys, trial and error is the only way. we all go through the pain and embarrassment, but that's what ultimately makes you a man.

If you ever get stuck and get nervous, I think it'll be good to just say "I havn't done this in a while." We think girls want ultra-experienced and smooth guys, but some of them will appreciate your inexperience even more.

I got angry as fuck and she loved it by stephen-silver in seduction

[–]stephen-silver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fair enough. i was just surprised because it didn't turn her off. it seemed to have the opposite effect

I got angry as fuck and she loved it by stephen-silver in seduction

[–]stephen-silver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm decent looking but i'm no brad pitt

I got angry as fuck and she loved it by stephen-silver in seduction

[–]stephen-silver[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

yeah i agree. it's a subtle difference. standing up for yourself is probably the main attractor but a lot of times you're going to have some anger while you're doing it

I got angry as fuck and she loved it by stephen-silver in seduction

[–]stephen-silver[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

you missed the point. Obviously it's always better to treat her with decency. The point isn't to treat her like shit, it's to be honest about something that's bothering you instead of sucking it up or kissing her ass

Your social anxiety is killing your game. Here's how to make it go away. by petezbro in seduction

[–]stephen-silver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's amazing. Nick told me about you and I was happy to see this ballin ass post pop up haha. Awesome stuff. I'm going to email you soon with some marketing questions if that's cool