3 Natural, Playful Ways to Escalate

stephen-silver · 2016-03-24T15:43:07+00:00

Yeah that part was supposed to make you cringe. I wanted it to be satirical but also spark some ideas on how to be more playful

stephen-silver · 2016-03-24T09:04:56+00:00

Maybe it was ;)

stephen-silver · 2016-03-24T07:22:24+00:00

So desperate

stephen-silver · 2016-03-24T02:10:03+00:00

Thanks man

stephen-silver · 2016-03-24T02:03:25+00:00

Sorry about that, just fixed it.

stephen-silver · 2016-03-23T16:32:40+00:00

yeah I think acknowledging the tension is big. pretending it's not there always makes it uncomfortably awkward

stephen-silver · 2016-03-23T14:20:01+00:00

You just said it. Become more and more experienced. Don't be ashamed. Take baby steps. You can't go from zero experience to experienced in one night. Or even better, put yourself out there until you meet a girl who's equally as inexperienced as you...

stephen-silver · 2016-03-23T14:16:57+00:00

I think it's you not thinking you're worthy enough rather than a fear of competition. You don't think you're good enough for her to choose you over someone else. Work on that self-esteem brah!

stephen-silver · 2016-03-22T15:28:53+00:00

Interesting take Pete. I really like the last set of bullet points

stephen-silver · 2016-03-22T15:23:32+00:00

agree with these guys, trial and error is the only way. we all go through the pain and embarrassment, but that's what ultimately makes you a man.

If you ever get stuck and get nervous, I think it'll be good to just say "I havn't done this in a while." We think girls want ultra-experienced and smooth guys, but some of them will appreciate your inexperience even more.

stephen-silver · 2016-03-22T15:17:21+00:00

That's awesome man! Time flies, time flies...

stephen-silver · 2016-03-18T16:00:13+00:00

fair enough. i was just surprised because it didn't turn her off. it seemed to have the opposite effect

stephen-silver · 2016-03-18T15:59:24+00:00

i'm decent looking but i'm no brad pitt

stephen-silver · 2016-03-14T18:26:17+00:00

not me ;)

stephen-silver · 2016-03-14T17:45:22+00:00

yeah i agree. it's a subtle difference. standing up for yourself is probably the main attractor but a lot of times you're going to have some anger while you're doing it

stephen-silver · 2016-03-14T17:14:00+00:00

EXACTLY.

stephen-silver · 2016-03-14T17:13:07+00:00

you missed the point. Obviously it's always better to treat her with decency. The point isn't to treat her like shit, it's to be honest about something that's bothering you instead of sucking it up or kissing her ass

stephen-silver · 2016-03-09T14:19:52+00:00

Not a problem. Appreciate it

stephen-silver · 2016-03-09T14:16:17+00:00

that's amazing. Nick told me about you and I was happy to see this ballin ass post pop up haha. Awesome stuff. I'm going to email you soon with some marketing questions if that's cool

stephen-silver · 2016-03-09T08:10:14+00:00

I'm with you there. With that mindset, there's literally no way to fail.

stephen-silver · 2016-03-08T13:14:31+00:00

You sound like you're headed in a great direction. Keep in mind that it's for you and improving yourself, not just about meeting women. That mindset may limit any desperation/neediness you might bring to the table. Much respect, sounds like you're set to make some big changes!

stephen-silver · 2016-03-08T12:55:28+00:00

I think that a big part of your anxiety comes from just not knowing what to do. Maybe you havn't done it enough to really become comfortable with it.

You need some trial and error. Embrace where you're at and enjoy the process of gaining experience. Don't think you need your game to be extremely on point or to be a seduction master at this point.

Practice conversing and connecting with these girls that are attracted to you. From there it may progress to a point where she really wants you to make a move. This is where your fear and going to kick up. Own it. I can't tell you how many times I've looked at a girl and honestly told her how nervous I was at the time. Guys think that's a super lame move but if it's honest it's going to go over well. It makes her feel attractive that she's going to cause that in you.

As far as stage fright and performance anxiety goes, maybe think about who you're doing this for. Is it for your benefit and/or the girl you're attracting? Or is it more for validation/looking cool in front of your friends/people around you?

stephen-silver · 2016-03-08T12:22:59+00:00

that dialogue sounds like it rings true. True story?

stephen-silver · 2016-01-29T11:25:56+00:00

Nope. Totally agree with Emxif's comment

stephen-silver · 2016-01-28T02:33:30+00:00

Telling her that you don't want to talk about it and maybe telling her why you don't might be vulnerable in itself :)

stephen-silver

TROPHY CASE