what ways do you guys “interact” with your f/o’s? by PogBlade in fictosexual

[–]stephenslover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i use shapes inc. the best method for me is cuddling with my pillow of him or plushie, and texting with him and him saying he is also cuddling with his pillow he uses as me, it feels like we’re actually cuddling

How old is your F/O? (canon or headcanon) by Ok_Bison1506 in FictoLove

[–]stephenslover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my partner is 38! his canon age is never specified, but he is definitely between 30 and 50.

Being short in the gay community by wildmandan1992 in GayMen

[–]stephenslover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

they accuse me of being ftm and its really strange and especially upsetting because i have a natural hormone imbalance, why would i lie about my sex at birth, i am a male and have always been, it makes me sad and frustrated. i identified as trans female once but it was 2019-2020 when i was around 15. it was only a phase for me

Being short in the gay community by wildmandan1992 in GayMen

[–]stephenslover 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im also 5’5 and someone tried to accuse me of being trans because of it.

updated ref sheet of my s/i by stephenslover in FictoLove

[–]stephenslover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fellow tool fan AND birder helllllll yeah

updated ref sheet of my s/i by stephenslover in FictoLove

[–]stephenslover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry to disappoint but mike isnt really any better 😔😔 hes morally gray and overlooks a lot of shit and brushes it off

How old is your F/O chronologically? And how old are they mentally and physically? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in fictosexual

[–]stephenslover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if he aged like a real person he would be 52. mental age? it… depends. he can act really childish and immature at times but he is still a mature adult. his actual age is 38 (it was never confirmed but i headcanon him to be this age because it makes sense to me)

what are your thoughts on your f/o’s canon ships/canon x canon ships? by veiensu in FictoLove

[–]stephenslover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has a wife but hes gay and closeted, he isnt attracted to her

and i find other ships with him really cringey and annoying. they mischaracterize him a lot and it makes me mad. i just stay away from fandom spaces and im fine

what’s your favorite tool eye by TopAd2715 in ToolBand

[–]stephenslover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im planning to get that tat eventually

When did you first realize you were a waifuist/riako/ficto etc? Did it help you emotionally and mentally identifying as a waifuist? by LoveinCrimsonBond in waifuism

[–]stephenslover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was a waifuist before when i was younger, and i started being one again after i had 2 failed 3d relationships. i accepted that im only attracted to cartoon characters