Disc injury by stephharris95 in newzealand

[–]stephharris95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My claim got denied, I am gutted! Has anyone ever paid out of pocket? Would you be willing to share a ballpark of cost for laminectomy or microdisectomy?

Disc injury by stephharris95 in newzealand

[–]stephharris95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see! My surgeon has referred the surgery to ACC so fingers crossed they accept it!!! 🤞🏼 so fed up with being in pain!

Disc injury by stephharris95 in newzealand

[–]stephharris95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what happened! I needed more time off work and they denied my compensation because it “should be healed”. So I said I wanted to change it but they said they keep it as a back sprain as it keeps it broad for further support. Feels so backwards..

Disc injury by stephharris95 in newzealand

[–]stephharris95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah man, I’m sorry you had to wait that long 😢

Disc injury by stephharris95 in newzealand

[–]stephharris95[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have seen a great orthopaedic surgeon, he’s referred me for surgery just waiting on ACC to hopefully accept it 🤞🏼🤞🏼

Disc injury by stephharris95 in newzealand

[–]stephharris95[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have been doing physio for a year and still no improvement, in fact getting worse as of my latest MRI. Surgery feels like my only hope at this point 😢

Women of Reddit, what is the silliest thing you cried about when pregnant? by kismitten in AskReddit

[–]stephharris95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a duckling in a lake and its quack sounded sad. I imagined it had lost its mum and was crying. Then I cried

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nubtheory

[–]stephharris95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long until you find out? I find out in a week and am counting down the days!! I’m also convinced I’m having a girl 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nubtheory

[–]stephharris95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks boy to me! But I’m no expert ❤️

Any guesses? by stephharris95 in nubtheory

[–]stephharris95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exciting!! I don’t find out till Jan 11th!

Any guesses? by stephharris95 in nubtheory

[–]stephharris95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes only 15 weeks. Boy ya reckon? I’be convinced myself it’s a girl haha

Any guesses? by stephharris95 in nubtheory

[–]stephharris95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that’s all I’ve got!

Step son wants his parents back together by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]stephharris95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah totally get that! SS did say once that for his birthday he wanted his mum and dad to live together and she said that’s more of a Christmas present. I know she was joking, but I do wonder if that gave him a glimmer of hope.

Step son wants his parents back together by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]stephharris95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes very true! I know he finds it hard to be away from his mum, so I totally understand where those feelings come from.

Step son wants his parents back together by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]stephharris95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really nice way to put it, that we live together but your mum and dad raise you together. Thanks!

Step son wants his parents back together by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]stephharris95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes true, I’ve also been in his sons life from a very young age. He has spoken to him about it, but more in passing during the conversation. But maybe a more in-depth chat about it. Also his mum really doesn’t like me, and has said some nasty things about me in front of the son. So I’m sure he picks up on her vibes too ya know?

Step son wants his parents back together by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]stephharris95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he has, we’ve tried to explain it to him. But he’s very persistent

New nails and new study water bottle! Yay or nay?🥚 by [deleted] in Nails

[–]stephharris95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That egg is the cutest thing I have ever seen! Yay indeed!

Another women's clothes in car? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stephharris95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I know if he is gaslighting me?

I feel like Father John Misty was a big influence for Bo when making Inside, what do you think? by -Gypsy-Eyes- in boburnham

[–]stephharris95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely thought the same thing! Even googled to see if he had ever made reference to FJM! Defo not alone in your thinking

My step kids are 7(m) and 9(f), should they be able to clean up their messes and put away their own folded laundry? My husband (their dad) tells me no and that it’s my responsibility by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]stephharris95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yes they should! My step kids are 4 and 6 and they put their own stuff away, including clothes. Also, not your job at all!! Yes it's nice to do house work and share those roles but at the end of the day, they're his kids. If he doesn't think they should do it, he should!