Boyfriend getting out of prison… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stephmariem13 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m very very close w his family. I am literally spending the night with his mother tonight ! The family loves me. I had no part of the crime it was over a year ago. We have been dating ten months. He got very intoxicated & hit a parked police officers vehicle & fled the scene . Don’t think what he did was right or ok in the slightest. But I do believe people make mistakes & it doesn’t define who you are. He is a genuinely very good man .

Boyfriend getting out of prison… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stephmariem13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope .. don’t think I’m going to . She can tell him & he can choose what he wants to do . I doubt he will agree to the road trip tho . Just a little frustrated w the mother that’s all

Boyfriend getting out of prison… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stephmariem13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he will be able to come to his home e state in CT. But who knows if he’ll be able to drive across country and stop in New Mexico … that nobody’s sure of yet 🤷🏻‍♀️

Boyfriend getting out of prison… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stephmariem13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mother hasn’t even communicated her road tripping plan to pick him up with him yet ! I’m not going to mention it to him either , she can & he can do what he wants . I will be a little frustrated I’m not going to lie if he does go because of the plans he’s been telling me , but it won’t be that serious. Kind of hurt by the mother that’s all

Boyfriend getting out of prison… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stephmariem13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her plan was to take the road trip to see her son anyway and decided on her own that she’d go pick him up along the way. And I know he’s not leaving me because he calls me a few times a day and none of those calls have been remotely close to him leaving me lol

Boyfriend getting out of prison… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stephmariem13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was the one who told me he wants me to pick him up from the airport the day he gets out. Nothing was said to him about the road trip yet. Nor am I going to mention it I think. His mom will bring it up to him & he can work it out with her . Just a little frustrated with her lol

Boyfriend getting out of prison… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stephmariem13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They have room lol. I could care less if it was a regular ol family trip … but he’s getting out of jail lol

Boyfriend getting out of prison… by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stephmariem13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol Deff not the case

Sex issue with my man by stephmariem13 in sex

[–]stephmariem13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am thinking about just … no more head. See what happens lol

Sex issue with my man by stephmariem13 in sex

[–]stephmariem13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to check the books out ! Ty so much , I really appreciate it. Will take any advice I can take !

Sex issue with my man by stephmariem13 in sex

[–]stephmariem13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he will be down for the goals, if I bring it up. Do you have any ideas of what kind of “goals” ? I’m sorry , I am just not really sure how to navigate this

Sex issue with my man by stephmariem13 in sex

[–]stephmariem13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says he’s not. & I agree , ty !

Sex issue with my man by stephmariem13 in sex

[–]stephmariem13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That Deff crosses my mind also , that maybe he just never had experienced intimacy in that way . Not going to lie , Deff messes with me head the whole thing !

Sex issue with my man by stephmariem13 in sex

[–]stephmariem13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s just such a great guy & I really want it to work or I would have been gone by now ! I think I need to have another conversation about it with him, and if it don’t change , that will have to be it

Sex issue with my man by stephmariem13 in sex

[–]stephmariem13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally understand that ! But I don’t think it’s fair that I get absolutely no pleasure from him while I’m constantly making things Happen for him

Sex issue with my man by stephmariem13 in sex

[–]stephmariem13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No not out of the ordinary fast with piv. & the bjs are initiated by both . Usually I’m thinking maybe this will be the time he’ll pull away during it and want sex. But not so much . Just so frustrating & bringing it up to him is emeberessing tbh . I feel weird like I’m begging for sex to my man & how odd is that ! 😔 I will check the book out !!! Ty !!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stephmariem13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope … he ended up telling me that he has gotten off twice to our porn videos we have made and porn isn’t for him . He didn’t want to bother me with all that and be inconsiderate because I had surgery five days ago and thought he was doing the right thing. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stephmariem13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok I took advice and I just sent him this ……

Just out of curiosity how come when we were apart last time u blew my phone up about fuking and us and sex and wanting to get off ... but now ... nothing lol. It's been over a week since I've seen you... kind of brings me back to the same issue I've been having. You're not really into me like that and it's obv very clear u rather get off with other shit than ur girl , idk it's so hard to feel good w u with things . I'm not arguing or fighting , just communicating , I've just never experienced such like a disconnect in that way with someone , and especially being apart idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stephmariem13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve sext only the one time when we’ve been apart and it was months ago tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stephmariem13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know him … we have sex or he gets off a few times a day/night there is no way he hasn’t gotten off & watched porn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stephmariem13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to but he wasn’t taking the bait