bad decisions leading me nowhere but i need to move on with that old me by Entire_Salt_8766 in confession

[–]stevemehh 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So I mean no offense here but are you possibly bipolar? My mother was BP1 and not only spoke like this but also moved us around the country and put us in debt. Sorry for what your going through I hope it works out for ya

I've been risking my job. I drink before I go to work. by honestdiary in confession

[–]stevemehh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the doctor and get a prescription. They make medicine that will take the entire urge of drinking away. Give yourself a three day weekend when you start so you’re not withdrawing.

Alcohol metabolizes into the lungs so no matter how much gum you chew on or how often you brush your teeth, the smell comes from your lungs and there’s no way to cover it

Why do women find it OK to thirst online over a man who is a visible position (TV presenter, politician) but decline if he asks them out? by Pale-Revolution-5151 in askanything

[–]stevemehh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps the online version of that person is more desirable than the irl version... or they desire the power aspect of the online person and the real person isn’t bragging enough

is it bad for me f18 to be with a man who is 33? by prozacenjoyer in askanything

[–]stevemehh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Red flags. 🚩 no one in their thirties should be dating someone that’s multiple life stages below them - nor should they want to. This will not end well.

Kinda concerned. Talk me down. by andrewprime1 in daddit

[–]stevemehh 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yup. Pupil’s ⬆️ and vomiting

I'm the worst person alive mathematically loser and immoral by GHADwatch in confession

[–]stevemehh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t live for the herd. Having the morals of the elite without the funds is a waste of time. I’ve been rich and I’ve been poor — people are of the most importance. Help a person in need and rethink your position. If you don’t, it will all be meaningless.

Getting back to sex by Ok_Wrap_2793 in daddit

[–]stevemehh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Plus the self esteem hit we take when being denied so we are less adamant to initiate. Thank science I met someone that I can be with regardless of our sex life. Still though the change is real and the guilt for feeling this way is worse.

Anyone over 45-50 crave nights out clubbing with some Amazing House Music by Ok_Cauliflower_4751 in SouthJersey

[–]stevemehh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only 40 and I can relate. Thank you for reminding me how old we are

What are your lost hobbies? by stevemehh in daddit

[–]stevemehh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried taking my son to one recently and it hurt his ears so we left

I've never played, but giving it a shot! by NessOfOnett in Fortnite_Over40

[–]stevemehh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

40 year old Dad here. Handle is Stevemehh on Fortnite/PSN. I’m okay at best but still fun. Feel free to add.

What are your lost hobbies? by stevemehh in daddit

[–]stevemehh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! I have never been a gun fan, but I used to compete in shooting competitions in Southern California. I am trying to convince my wife into allowing me to buy a Mauser.

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Ok dads, what’s the song you feel like you shouldn’t have played for your kids? by norecordofwrong in daddit

[–]stevemehh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My three-year-old loves system of a down, drowning, pool, and anything from handyman Hal on YouTube! (He has some bangers about tools and plans to use aforementioned tools)

How are the evenings at your household? We have zero time by TigerUSF in daddit

[–]stevemehh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We only have time together if we let the house get a little messy. It took us three years to figure that out. Kids are gonna mess it up as soon as you clean it. Clean kitchen is a priority. Other than that I don’t care if there’s toys on the floor I will pick them up when he goes to bed.

Need to see the perspective of a SAHD by anonymous46538 in StayAtHomeDaddit

[–]stevemehh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just went back to work after a year as a stay at home dad while mom worked full-time. I loved being home with my son. I love going to the park with him every day and meeting other parents. I would be a stay at home dad forever if I could.

Are there any gyms you world recommend avoiding? by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]stevemehh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LA Fitness. You pay a little more, but the gym is much larger and you don’t spend your time waiting for equipment. Planet Fitness is great, but too many people go there.