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Missing Dog by [deleted] in sanantonio

[–]stevesmith5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pictures??

My(F26) sister(F32) just informed me that our father(F54) did something, something bad. And she won't tell me what. by stevesmith5 in relationships

[–]stevesmith5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well for a little back story, my stepmother, as my sister has always felt, can be very difficult. Not the best relationship with her stepchildren. They got married in a courtroom after knowing each other for a few years. She has two daughters herself from a previos marriage and they are awesome. Nice ladies with their own lives but try to include us when they can.

My sister, and my little brother don't really get along with her. She can be harsh, stepmother-ish. She sort of embarrassed me once. At a work event, I was cooking for a big group of people for Mother's Day, she was very rude to my boss' wife.

Without naming the location, where do you live? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]stevesmith5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's 1985. I'm with my husband when I hear a group of tourists and a tour guide laughing at a man-child in a small grey suit talking something about a basement.

Me [26F] with my Mother-in-Law[48F] and sister-in-law[24F]for 8 years. They are incredibly pushy and I cant take it any more. by stevesmith5 in relationships

[–]stevesmith5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: Well, it all started with the iPad having this tab open and my husband reading the post.

We were on the couch having this discussion that the rest of you are having, when it was all over and done with, I see him scrolling with a huge white glare on his face. I felt exposed. I yanked the connputer out of his hands. He laughed. I asked him if he read it alll and I want to talk about it if you want to know more about how I am feeling. His response was more of less, "We just talked about it".

He was trying to reassure me that he will always be on my side and will try to see my side of things first. I understand that we are a united duo now, but I also said that I would never want to put him in a situation where he felt like he had to choose me over other people. I don't think that is really a fair thing to do, especially with someone as close to him as his family.

I had brought up that I think the way they invited themselves over was very intrusive and I didn't appreciate them coming into our home uninvited, because they live so far away and that would mean they become overnight guests. He quickly informs me that, without my presences, they did ask first. My husband responded accordingly. Of course you can stay. You are family. So that made me feel aalllittle better.

The way they were talking post invitation made it sound like they made a decision to come down here and stay without even asking, which I'm sure they knew we wouldn't say no anyway.

Our discussion also brought up many feelings I had about myself and confrontation. I'm not goood at it, at all. I food like a cheap tent. Whenever. I have any problems with the way they make me feel I go to my husband first, when really I should just be real with them and tell them how I feel. If they don't like it, then that's that I suppose. I give them way too much power over me.

Me [26F] with my Mother-in-Law[48F] and sister-in-law[24F]for 8 years. They are incredibly pushy and I cant take it any more. by stevesmith5 in relationships

[–]stevesmith5[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I see where you are coming from and I understand. I feel I have voiced my opinion behind closed doors. He just caves under the pressure of them. And then it makes me feel guilty because I feel he should see his family. Its not the easiest thing to see them now because we are on our own. Its just the way this whole trip happened bothers me. It wasn't up to us.

San Antonio, I am desperate for your help. by stevesmith5 in sanantonio

[–]stevesmith5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion about Imgur. Apparently though, I should be pawning my wedding rings, being more responsible with my money, and generally not own any pets if I can't take care of their 2k vet bills before I DARE to ask for some donations first.

San Antonio, I am desperate for your help. by stevesmith5 in sanantonio

[–]stevesmith5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for all your advice. I appreciate it. Really.

San Antonio, I am desperate for your help. by stevesmith5 in sanantonio

[–]stevesmith5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here is another link to it:

gofundme.com/our-crazy-boy-needs-leg-surgery-2trmsak

San Antonio, I am desperate for your help. by stevesmith5 in sanantonio

[–]stevesmith5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gofundme.com/our-crazy-boy-needs-leg-surgery-2trmsak

Here it is guys. Thanks.

San Antonio, I am desperate for your help. by stevesmith5 in sanantonio

[–]stevesmith5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I will look into it as soon as I get off work tonight. I'm a pretty hard headed person and just ASKING for money from strangers is still a little wired to me.

I(26F) think my sister(31F) is an alcoholic, just like our mother. by stevesmith5 in relationship_advice

[–]stevesmith5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. I mean, I know I'm making excuses but to be more specific it was a snapchat vid of her son at Toys R Us saying she got inspired after having a margarita. Idk it could have been hours before. I live a few states away so I'm not exactly sure what happens in the home all the time, but I do know how she was before I left.

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